If you were mutual friends with a couple,and you knew
one of them is/was cheating,would you tell the affected party?
#Shareuropinion

Either ways, I won't say it with my mouth. I would just snap pics or record a video. If it was the lady that was cheating, I'd take the dude to her cheating spot. It's usually an hotel, so we'll chill at the bar till whenever the casala burst. Then I'll advice the fidel person to be mature and reconsile. . . .

Advice the cheater to desist if not i stop been a friend. Cant stand it.

If you want to play smart, US military has a policy that's called "don't ask, don't tell"

If they have kids, I won't tell the other partner to avoid a divorce that will put the kids at risk. However, I will call the cheating partner privately and warn him/her that I may be forced to exercise my rights to be & remain stupid (according to US laws) if he/ she doesn't stop cheating, and pray he/ she takes me serious. If he/she continues, I'll cut the friendship. A cheat will be caught or exposed anyway (I pray not by me), it's a matter of time.

Loyalty to your friend should be 101%. Never betray a friend no matter how tough the situation is.

longthinx: Advice the cheater to desist if not i stop been a friend. Cant stand it.

That is the best thing to do. Advice the cheater. we need to start speaking up. If we have a friend who is doing the wrong, thing talk to them, if they refuse to desist, look for another friend.

Woged2005: If you want to play smart, US military has a policy that's called "don't ask, don't tell"

If they have kids, I won't tell the other partner to avoid a divorce that will put the kids at risk. However, I will call the cheating partner privately and warn him/her that I may be forced to exercise my rights to be & remain stupid (according to US laws) if he/ she doesn't stop cheating, and pray he/ she takes me serious. If he/she continues, I'll cut the friendship. A cheat will be caught or exposed anyway (I pray not by me), it's a matter of time.

Loyalty to your friend should be 101%. Never betray a friend no matter how tough the situation is.

And if lives are at risk?

We should always help a cheat as well as whom is being cheated on.
One way to do this is to strongly advice the cheat to stop what [s]he is doing.
A good friend will take heed and you wouldn't need to expose him/her.

A bad friend will not listen to ur advise and you may need to expose him/her which is very wrong.
And remember that [s]he is a bad friend, so life may also be at stake especially if it's a woman.

To safeguard ur good name and life in such situation u've to unfriend ur so called friend.

Too risky I tell you.