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Guy this is a Huge dilemma.although Age is just a number and we dont chose who we love but there are some factors to look at,Firstly Everything in life starts and ends with God,Have you prayed abt ur Situation. Secondly Marriage is totally different from Dating,there are alot of angles you look at but the most important 1 are ur families,have you talk to any of ur family abt this,whats her own family decisions.Thirdly sometimes Love is not enough,Waiting for 4yrs is a big deal and reading thru what you wrote she sounds like a perfect Wife for you But what are ur plans for her? Are you 1 00 percent sure you wanna marry her? cos telling someone to wait for 4yrs means its 100percent Guaranteed that ur getting married.Fourthly Try to change the ideal Woman mentality cos if that were true i would be married to Canadian Jessica Lucas,Sometimes we have an ideal of what we want our wife and life to be but Sometimes the Creator has hes own plan for us.Just try to ask for God guidance and directions.

Dude, if you love her just forget about tha lie and forgive her..and get her wifed up.