I am so sad Muslim men nowadays marry the Kafirs at alarming rate leaving the Muslim Women.

Who will then marry our beloved Muslimah because in Islam, Muslim women should not marry non-Muslim men.

Some people give excuse dat their faith is not strong enough to marry a Niqobat or Full Hijabat. This is no excuse at all as there are many "jasi" sisters dat are compatible with u that av such weak faith.

Because of your attitude, some muslim sisters who are desperate of marriage are now marrying non-muslim thereby converting to their husband religion as well as there children.

Most Muslim men who marry the kafir women have most of the children following the mother's religion. Sometimes, d man could even convert.

READ THE FOLLOWING FOR BETTER UNDERSTANDING

Question : What is your advice concerning
some Muslim marrying disbelieving women who do not believe in
the existence of a Creator and what is the
effect of that upon the children?

Response : My advice to all Muslims is
that they should not marry anyone who is
not a Muslim. A Muslim man should do
his utmost to marry a Muslim woman
because that will be good for him, both in
the life of this world and in the Hereafter
and good for his children as well.

With regards to marrying kuffaar, if they are not from the People of the Book , the
Jews and Christians, then, according to
clear text and consensus of the scholars,
it is forbidden. According to a consensus
of the scholars, it is not permitted for a
Muslim to marry Buddhists, communists,
atheists and so forth.

Allaah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala ) says: {And do not marry idolatresses until they believe.} [ Soorah al-Baqarah, Aayah 221]

Concerning the Settlement of
Hudaybiyah, Allaah (Subhaanahu wa
Ta'aala ) ordered that the believing
women, who came seeking emigration to
the Prophet ( sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa
sallam ) should not be returned to their
disbelieving husbands. He ( Subhaanahu
wa Ta'aala ) says: {They are not lawful
(wives) for the disbelievers nor are the
disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them.}
[ Soorah al-Mumtahinah, Aayah 10]

It is, therefore, not permitted for a
Muslim to ever marry a kaafir woman
unless she is from the People of the Book
and they are the Jews and Christians only.

They are considered the People of the
Book if they have remained upon the
teachings of their Book. However, if they
have become communists or deny the
existence of a Creator, they are no longer
People of the Book, but rather they have
become atheists.

If, however, they are from the People of the Book , adhere to the teachings of Christianity or Judaism and believe in Allaah and the Resurrection, then they can be married.

This is provided that they are known to be
chaste and it is known that they do not
commit adultery or fornication. Allaah has made lawful for us chaste women from the People of the Book.

He ( Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala ) says: {All good things are made lawful for you this day. The food of the People of the Book is lawful to you and your food is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before you, provided
that you give them their dowries and live
in honour with them, neither committing
fornication nor taking them as
mistresses... } [ Soorah al-Maa'idah, Aayah 5]

Allaah has made lawful for Muslims chaste and virtuous women who are free and not slaves. There is no harm, therefore, in marrying women from the People of the Book, if the need arises.

However, to refrain from doing so and to marry Muslim women is preferable and
advisable, especially nowadays.

The risk involved in marrying them these
days is greater because they have control
and power over husbands and might,
therefore, lead their husbands or their
children to kufr in Allaah.

My advice to all my brothers everywhere is, that they should not marry non-Muslim women and that they should be aware of the risks and end result of doing so.

Rather, they should do their utmost to marry Muslim women and to educate and guide them to what is good. This is safer, especially at this time when evil and wickedness has increased.

The kuffaar have today gained
the upper hand over the Muslims, and
women in the countries of the kuffaar
have power and authority and dominate
their Muslim husbands and try to attract
them and their children to their false
religion.

And there is no power, no strength except with Allaah!

Shaykh Ibn Baaz.
al-Aqalliyaat al-Muslimah - Page 29, Fatwa
No.5

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