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Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 5:05pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
TheBigUrban2: I can understand the need for this thread. Interesting analysis. This happens, a lot. Many of the Muslim men that I have come across are not my type, for example. And I have known quite a number of non-Muslim men that I like. #justsaying. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 5:06pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Fulaman198: I don't think he was generalising. He only presented a scenario. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 5:08pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Fulaman198: How do you measure that interest in fulfude. I don't think many grown ups can learn new languages. |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by TheBigUrban2: 5:15pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: Good. I wish Tbaba and co can come here and give practical advice......rather than throw out philosophies. Example- Muslima; Help!!! My husband wants to take a second wife. It is not that I cant share my husband.....the problem is that the woman and I disliked each other in school. I see problems coming our way. Male muslim Nairalander; The Quran permits a man to marry up to four wives. Islam is perfect. Islam gives the way to handle such problems. How does the male muslim nairalander solve the problem in any way? 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: If someone is genuinely interested in you, how could they not be interested in your culture and language I think it's a bit silly to imply that Fula shouldn't expect as much. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by TheBigUrban2: 6:15pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: Thank you |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Fulaman198(m): 6:20pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: If she is constantly asking me how does one say something in Fulfulde, that reveals to me that she has interest in the language and culture. Or if from time to time she would ask me stuff about Fulani culture. Another measure of this is if I find a woman who is into history and culture and she is not always talking about Europe or Asia or other Westernised countries/cultures. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Fulaman198(m): 6:21pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: 1 Like |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 6:38pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: U didnt av to call anyone silly. I only wanted to understand to what extent his expectations are. I, myself prefer to marry someone from my tribe. No time for ambiguosities. |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 6:41pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
TheBigUrban2: I reason with you. We will all get better at these things in sha Allah. Many of us are quite young. Hope u aint thinkn tbaba is one old man |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 6:43pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Fulaman198: This is fair enough. |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: Sorry, that isn't what I meant. That's perfectly natural. I had that preference too, but life doesn't always go as planned. All that aside, when you're interested in someone from another tribe/culture, that interest would naturally extend to their culture and language. It's part of who they are as person, and crucial to becoming comfortably acquainted with their side of the family. It's highly important for the kids to be familiar with their father's culture as well, and not just the mothers'. |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 6:55pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: I agree |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: Okie doke |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deols: Loll this happens a lot in non-Muslim countries especially, with both sexes. What a dilemma. |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
deols: Don't be. Maybe he was trying to say he is in a relationship or married. |
Re: Marriage To A Non-muslim by deols(f): 5:19pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
andromida: don't mind me. he couldn't have handled me anyway 1 Like |
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