Before now, there was a perceived calm in the family of the Okoyes(P’square’s family) but from all indication it was not so. The rift in the family has long been with them only that it escalated and came into limelight in recent times shortly before and after the wedding of Peter okoye and Lola omotayo.

I wont waste time going down history lane how this internal rift among this family members started but i want to point out some errors that has made this problem to have gotten to this extent.

I can understand their mother’s stand in terms of her disapproval of Lola Omotayo as a bride to Peter. One of the reasons being her tribe and the other her age. Many mothers in Nigeria especially those in her generation are so tribe conscious hence her decision. But in everything that has happned i blame Jude Okoye who is the eldest among the brothers. This is because as the eldest, he is the one that is suppose to try and see how he can unite the family without prjudice or sentiments.

Yes the mother never liked the wife to be, but she is dead now and him not accepting her and even shunning their wedding is totally imature. This shows that maturity does not necessarily have to do with age.

As a first born, i use to let my younger ones know that our parents willl one day leave this world, that we will face life entirely on our own and their limitations should not be our own also, that what ever they believed can be modified or changed.
As one who is well exposed, he would have tried his best to see how he can convince the mother that this is 21st century and things shouldnt be done the way it was done those days. Maybe by this the mother would have had a change of heart. But from all indication he did not.

Even though i don’t encourage paying evil with evil, i think Peter and Lola are too justified not to have attended Jude Okoye’s wedding. He got it all wrong when he refused attending peter’s wedding which changed nothing but fueled the problem.


This is a lesson to all families to know that tribalism is something they should do away with. That some of our parents beliefs should be scrutinise and some should not be encouraged or continued. It baffles me how people believe in God and despise his creation from another region or race.

MORNDEW.

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Princewill Chimereze.
Student, writter, facilitator and public affairs analyst.

I'll be here forever





Forever young

Elder brothers should be careful how they behave.

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Forever young

meaning?

Moredew:
meaning?

esu ni mi

Moredew: Before now, there was a perceived calm in the family of the Okoyes(P’square’s family) but from all indication it was not so. The rift in the family has long been with them only that it escalated and came into limelight in recent times shortly before and after the wedding of Peter okoye and Lola omotayo.

I wont waste time going down history lane how this internal rift among this family members started but i want to point out some errors that has made this problem to have gotten to this extent.

I can understand their mother’s stand in terms of her disapproval of Lola Omotayo as a bride to Peter. One of the reasons being her tribe and the other her age. Many mothers in Nigeria especially those in her generation are so tribe conscious hence her decision. But in everything that has happned i blame Jude Okoye who is the eldest among the brothers. This is because as the eldest, he is the one that is suppose to try and see how he can unite the family without prjudice or sentiments.

Yes the mother never liked the wife to be, but she is dead now and him not accepting her and even shunning their wedding is totally imature. This shows that maturity does not necessarily have to do with age.

As a first born, i use to let my younger ones know that our parents willl one day leave this world, that we will face life entirely on our own and their limitations should not be our own also, that what ever they believed can be modified or changed.
As one who is well exposed, he would have tried his best to see how he can convince the mother that this is 21st century and things shouldnt be done the way it was done those days. Maybe by this the mother would have had a change of heart. But from all indication he did not.

Even though i don’t encourage paying evil with evil, i think Peter and Lola are too justified not to have attended Jude Okoye’s wedding. He got it all wrong when he refused attending peter’s wedding which changed nothing but fueled the problem.


This is a lesson to all families to know that tribalism is something they should do away with. That some of our parents beliefs should be scrutinise and some should not be encouraged or continued. It baffles me how people believe in God and despise his creation from another region or race.

MORNDEW.

Curled from
http://enlightennigeriablog./category/entertainment/

Princewill Chimereze.
Student, writter, facilitator and public affairs analyst.

honore ur father and mother, so dat ur days will be long.

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Wise words OP, very wise words indeed

Fiftynine: honore ur father and mother, so dat ur days will be long.

even wen dey ask u to put ur hand in fire.
Even wen their reasons are baseless nd bad. So if ur mother ask u not to go to church bt to a babalawo house u will obey too?

Fiftynine: honore ur father and mother, so dat ur days will be long.

YES THE STUPID BOY DISSOBEYED HIS MUM S LAST WORD HE WILL LIVE TO DEAL WITH D CONSEQUENCE

1 IGBO ADDAGE SAYS "WHAT D ELDERS SEE WHILE SITTING DOWN D YOUNG CANNOT SEE EVEN CLIMBING ON TO OF A TREE''
HE WILL SURELY REGRET IT

D MUGU BOY GO DEY DERE DAT WITCH WOMAN SHE MARRY GO CARRY HIM SOUL DE PLAY BALL

Fiftynine: honore ur father and mother, so dat ur days will be long.

YES THE STUPID BOY DISOBEYED HIS MUM S LAST WORD HE WILL LIVE TO DEAL WITH D CONSEQUENCE

1 IGBO ADDAGE SAYS "WHAT D ELDERS SEE WHILE SITTING DOWN D YOUNG CANNOT SEE EVEN CLIMBING ON TO OF A TREE''
HE WILL SURELY REGRET IT

D MUGU BOY GO DEY DERE DAT WITCH WOMAN SHE MARRY GO CARRY HIM SOUL DE PLAY BALL

tosscash1:

YES THE STUPID BOY DISOBEYED HIS MUM S LAST WORD HE WILL LIVE TO DEAL WITH D CONSEQUENCE

1 IGBO ADDAGE SAYS "WHAT D ELDERS SEE WHILE SITTING DOWN D YOUNG CANNOT SEE EVEN CLIMBING ON TO OF A TREE''
HE WILL SURELY REGRET IT

D MUGU BOY GO DEY DERE DAT WITCH WOMAN SHE MARRY GO CARRY HIM SOUL DE PLAY BALL

wht sense hv u made nw with wht u spewed above.

Moredew:

wht sense hv u made nw with wht u spewed above.

OK d westerners ARE WICKED sorry if u are 1 but dats t truth
ARE U SATISFIED NOW?

tosscash1:


OK d westerners ARE WICKED sorry if u are 1 but dats t truth
ARE U SATISFIED NOW?

No. Hw ar dey wicked.

Moredew:
No. Hw ar dey wicked.

GOOGLE is your FRIEND

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Moredew:
No. Hw ar dey wicked.

GOOGLE is your FRIEND

Their mothers problem with lola is NOT TRIBE pls her issue is the age difference, no mother or father that has African background will allow his son marry a woman 8yrs older
paul did not marry an igbo gurl yet she is accepted
the mother saw something in lola that made her refuse that's the sprit of discord
She is dead does not mean her wish should not be respected ,after all millions of yourbas are married to igbos and vice versa

tosscash1:

GOOGLE is your FRIEND

i want you to tell me urself.

Can we just leave this brothers alone.

amacastel: Their mothers problem with lola is NOT TRIBE pls her issue is the age difference, no mother or father that has African background will allow his son marry a woman 8yrs older
paul did not marry an igbo gurl yet she is accepted
the mother saw something in lola that made her refuse that's the sprit of discord
She is dead does not mean her wish should not be respected ,after all millions of yourbas are married to igbos and vice versa

nd whts wrong wit age? As i pointed out in d article, our parents believe are sometimes wrong. She should wake up from her grave nd fight her den. Nd beside was she alive wen paul married d lady in question?
So peter shud marry who he never loved nd live in misery all his life. Thank God he never listened to people like u who reasone in one direction. U can marry who u dnt love all to please ur mum or dad nd live in hell. Shebi their life na ur life too.

Hypocrite...... as if your own mother will jump up with Joy if you brought home to marry a woman ten years older than you. Even your dad won't be happy with such choice of bride.... Make you talk true..

Moredew:
nd whts wrong wit age? As i pointed out in d article, our parents believe are sometimes wrong. She should wake up from her grave nd fight her den. Nd beside was she alive wen paul married d lady in question?
So peter shud marry who he never loved nd live in misery all his life. Thank God he never listened to people like u who reasone in one direction. U can marry who u dnt love all to please ur mum or dad nd live in hell. Shebi their life na ur life too.

Hypocrite...... as if your own mother will jump up with Joy if you brought home to marry a woman ten years older than you. Even your dad won't be happy with such choice of bride.... Make you talk true..

lanrefront1: Hypocrite...... as if your own mother will jump up with Joy if you brought home to marry a woman ten years older than you. Even your dad won't be happy with such choice of bride.... Make you talk true.. Hypocrite...... as if your own mother will jump up with Joy if you brought home to marry a woman ten years older than you. Even your dad won't be happy with such choice of bride.... Make you talk true..

dey wil nt be happy bt dat will not stop me frm wht i wnt. Dats d truth. Dey hv their live i hv mine.

amacastel: Their mothers problem with lola is NOT TRIBE pls her issue is the age difference, no mother or father that has African background will allow his son marry a woman 8yrs older
paul did not marry an igbo gurl yet she is accepted
the mother saw something in lola that made her refuse that's the sprit of discord
She is dead does not mean her wish should not be respected ,after all millions of yourbas are married to igbos and vice versa

people that think like you just did are forever stagnant.the mother just use the age different as an excuse cos we are in Africa where we believe husbands should be older than their wives. her real excuse was the tribe. paul nd jude supported their mother but cos the mother is nolonger alive that was what gives paul courage to marry a lady not from their tribe.
am very sure u re part of the people that condemn mercy johnson marriage then nd now they re living happily.
face your own business and leave them cos there is more to the story than met the eyes.
if the mother sees anything cos she is older nd more experienced then let time decide their fates not you

Moredew:
nd whts wrong wit age? As i pointed out in d article, our parents believe are sometimes wrong. She should wake up from her grave nd fight her den. Nd beside was she alive wen paul married d lady in question?
So peter shud marry who he never loved nd live in misery all his life. Thank God he never listened to people like u who reasone in one direction. U can marry who u dnt love all to please ur mum or dad nd live in hell. Shebi their life na ur life too.

My der we are not quarreling for tribe issue is not the problem am sure is jst age yes the mother is being old fashion but on peters's persistence he should be ready to endure a lot from his family not being agressive with time family will leave with it though most women that are older than their husband teen to manipulate the man that's one issue u have to consider cos they are running family business
If ur son want to marry a woman that is almst ten yrs older will u accept immediately ?

amacastel:

My der we are not quarreling for tribe issue is not the problem am sure is jst age yes the mother is being old fashion but on peters's persistence he should be ready to endure a lot from his family not being agressive with time family will leave with it though most women that are older than their husband teen to manipulate the man that's one issue u have to consider cos they are running family business
If ur son want to marry a woman that is almst ten yrs older will u accept immediately ?

did peter tell u he is complaining?
Jude snubbed his wedding nd he did d same so whts d cry by ppl including u.
Jude as a senior broda has failed nd peter has realised dis. As for my son bringing a woman older dan him. If he truly love her nd she loves him. I will strongly accept. African backward mentality dey worry som of una.

Mariojane: people that think like you just did are forever stagnant.the mother just use the age different as an excuse cos we are in Africa where we believe husbands should be older than their wives. her real excuse was the tribe. paul nd jude supported their mother but cos the mother is nolonger alive that was what gives paul courage to marry a lady not from their tribe.
am very sure u re part of the people that condemn mercy johnson marriage then nd now they re living happily.
face your own business and leave them cos there is more to the story than met the eyes.
if the mother sees anything cos she is older nd more experienced then let time decide their fates not you

true talk my sister

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