Message From Yonder.

To the ones we lost along the way, this is wishing you a restful repose.
The living accept the departure, though pained. We keep and cherish their memories hoping someday at the resurrection we will be rekindled.

But while we wait, those birthday greetings should cease. You can't be dead and still be sending birthday greetings.

It is traumatic to the loved ones left behind seeing the departed still commuicating felicities on special days.
It is a touchy matter. I wish I knew the shortest cut off this.