Godmystrength: Please calm down. No need to get worked up.

Sophyrocks:



im b.p don rise. Now who are the humans patronising those hoes, flashing the money and riches at their faces? food for thought.

phabulous88:

If you don't market your goods, nobody's gonna patronise you

Sophyrocks:

Its still your choice to decide to patronise or not. After patronising, why cry foul? Why criticise whom you patronise when you are both the same?

phabulous88:

If you don't market your goods, nobody's gonna patronise you

phabulous88:
Nobody's crying foul. It just doesn't make sense when I hear peeps put the blame on the man. We're all at fault, our generation is deeply fvcked.

phabulous88:

I ain't referring to all girls, just them lazy prostitute.s ones who need someone to talk sense into them.

phabulous88:

Nobody's crying foul. It just doesn't make sense when I hear peeps put the blame on the man. We're all at fault, our generation is deeply fvcked.

Sophyrocks:

Cool. let everyone do their part.Since men majorly do the chasing, let the change start from them.

phabulous88:

I promise you that we'll stop chasing when ladies stop demanding and dressing semi unclad.

Godmystrength: Even when you are married?

phabulous88:

I'm a responsible man, my parents raised me well, I fear God, plus I've got sense

phabulous88:

I promise you that we'll stop chasing when ladies stop demanding and dressing semi unclad.

phabulous88: For those of you saying it's a man's fault, are you guys stewpid? Must a man (who's not your spouse) help a lady? Is she disabled? Can't she work & fend for herself? Has she no common sense?

Go to developed countries & you'll see high school/college girls working part time jobs through school. Are they better than you are?

Ok I see, all you wanna do is being lazy all day, watch E, apply mac and hope that your cookie is gonna fetch you bread. Hoes! Our society is fvcked! Nobody wonna work but everyone wants to live like a paparazzi. It's craz.y!

Sophyrocks:

How about little girls who get advances from these men, you wanna tell me they dress unclad or started making demands? Dnt you notice young girls start changing ONCE men start to chase them? Paedophiles are on the loose also married men who feel they are free to chase anything in skirts instead of sticking to their wives. Most men feel entitled to as many women as possible. That belief alone will make things worse. It usually starts from there. Even ladies who dnt dress indecently still get chased. So? Dnt you think there should be change in the mentality of men? That entitlement mentality has to change in order for a drastic change to occur.

phabulous88:

How do you change the mentality of a rat who loves cheese? Do you put a cheese in a trap or you rid your house of anything the rat loves?

The problem I see is that these little girls know that these men are married but that they have the resources to take care of them, unlike the 'broke' university guys. Plus they feel going through the money-for-se.x route is a win-win for them - getting paid for something they enjoy (se.x ). They just wonna maximise the moment cos 'it's an opportunity that ain't lasting forever'.

And yes, girls will always get advances from men, or how else do we sustain our world if men stop chasing women and the human population goes into extinction? Common sense should teach them how to handle these advances

Sophyrocks:

So there you have it! Once the chase continues, the girls will keep being the way they are. Once the entitlement mentality remains, ladies will take full advantage of it to feed their greed. A greedy married man flaunting money and riches around will always get a greedy girl to fall for it. So i guess we should stop complaining since no one wants to change.

phabulous88:

Yea we're all to blame - men and women alike. Let's work together and reverse the trends. It begins with you

Sophyrocks:

I INSIST It starts with the men. The men keep feeding the greed of these ladies by patronising them then turn around to criticise them. You can't run around with money and riches HOPING that ladies will not collect. Its pointless. Therefore, the change must start with them.

phabulous88:

LOL.
That's exactly my point. Must they collect? Can't they (your ladies) work and make their own monies, so that they can run around with riches? Is it too difficult for them to do?

Sophyrocks:

You made a point earlier. Why flash cheese in front of a rat? Whenever a problem arises,the best way to solve it is to start from the root cause not the top/surface. This problem starts from the chasing and flashing of riches in exchange for intimacy. MARRIED MEN WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO STICK TO THEIR WIVES CHASING SINGLE LADIES. Why? The motive behind that act is the problem and the 'mother' of all other problems. why do you have to flash riches Hoping that ladies will not collect them? does that make sense? are you helping that way? Isnt it better not to flash at all, stay yor lane and stick to your wife? if you have too many gifts to dash, motherless babies homes nko? why dnt you open a foundation for that? YOUR WIFE NKO? she no need those gifts?

Godmystrength: Sophyrocks is vexing o They can't dash motherless babies home anything o abi what will they get in return? The baby's there don't have anything to offer them now...Abi

Sophyrocks:

My sister, i no dey vex o. Infact im laughing as im typing. LOL.

Seriously if the men are sooooo generous and are always in the mood of giving, why cn't they direct their generosity to the right channels? Buut of course, these men won't give without getting something in return. wetin babies wan give these men in return? That is why SAMBARRY is very correct. Men nowadays do not do things for you unless you've got something to give them.

Godmystrength:

Generous indeed o.
They even expect you to know before they even ask you for it. If you act like you don't know what they are talking about, they ask if you were born yesterday ni...

Sophyrocks:

You made a point earlier. Why flash cheese in front of a rat? Whenever a problem arises,the best way to solve it is to start from the root cause not the top/surface. This problem starts from the chasing and flashing of riches in exchange for intimacy. MARRIED MEN WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO STICK TO THEIR WIVES CHASING SINGLE LADIES. Why? The motive behind that act is the problem and the 'mother' of all other problems. why do you have to flash riches Hoping that ladies will not collect them? does that make sense? are you helping that way? Isnt it better not to flash at all, stay yor lane and stick to your wife? if you have too many gifts to dash, motherless babies homes nko? why dnt you open a foundation for that? YOUR WIFE NKO? she no need those gifts?

phabulous88:

If I'm gonna deal with the root cause of promiscuity in men, I'll get rid of stuffs they are attracted to. And this, my dear, is the cheese I was referring to - semi unclad ladies displaying their wares.

And talking about motive being the problem, girls know that guys are easily aroused by what they see, and that's why you see them marketing their goods. If guys don't see these wares, cookie chasing will reduce and the rate of illegal conji will plummet. Its like a guy who is used to moi moi (his wife) and you're offering him shawarma, which one u go choose? Lol.

And by the way, there's no wife yet

phabulous88:

If I'm gonna deal with the root cause of promiscuity in men, I'll get rid of stuffs they are attracted to. And this, my dear, is the cheese I was referring to - semi unclad ladies displaying their wares.

And talking about motive being the problem, girls know that guys are easily aroused by what they see, and that's why you see them marketing their goods. If guys don't see these wares, cookie chasing will reduce and the rate of illegal conji will plummet. Its like a guy who is used to moi moi (his wife) and you're offering him shawarma, which one u go choose? Lol.

And by the way, there's no wife yet

Sophyrocks:

So how about little girls and ladies who dnt display their wares but get advances nko? why are you exempting them?

You can be attracted to something but must you act upon the attraction? thats where the problem is. GREED is the problem. You used an example of having moi moi while shawarma is outside. If you keep using the 'Variety is the spice of life' excuse, then you should not criticise ladies for being greedy either. Greed is a trait perculiar to all Humans including women not just men. Greedy men will attract greedy ladies. This is why men flashing riches will still get the ladies coming for them and opening their legs. So i think we should not criticise the ladies when we know fully well that men still patronise them. All in all, stop the flashing of gifts if you really want the ladies to stop accepting them. KEEP YOUR GREED IN CHECK IF YOU WANT OTHERS TO CONTROL THEIR GREED. If not, you are just deceiving yourself. If you really want ladies to step up and stop being lazy, then stop flashing gifts and riches at them. Let them work for them.

Godmystrength: my hubby doesn't like shawarma. He is ENJOYING my moi moi.

Then start saving the gifts for when you see WIFE.

phabulous88:

And if men stop flashing money at them, you go call them aka gum!