I need help on what to do my life is finished..READ THIS PLEASE
I met a young lady whom I liked far back when I was in secondary school.My parents where rich then..I loved this girl so much that we never had sex until the right time.she promised to keep herself for me and no other guy.I brought her out,she was 15 and i was 17..I started paying her school fees with my own pocket money I saved..I paid all her sec school fees even waec before I traveled out of Nigeria at 17.. I still worked and sent her money for her jamb and university. my parents where not aware..I sent her money even as off last 3 months. I did everything which b4 I wanted to travel I asked her for us to have sex at least she said no till I get back and marry her that she keep herself for me..The last time I came back last month b4 then we were talking on phone and I came back to discover she was no more a virgin which she told me and begging me to forgive her that she is even pregnant for the guy..and I love her so much I want to marry her I trained her til she was 22 years from secondary to university even clothes and sent money for her mom intending to marry her.but now she paid me back with this..am confused now please help me.please..gosh crying

What Is urs will never leave u,so why d cry....#physical God sent

chester47: I need help on what to do my life is finished..READ THIS PLEASE
I met a young lady whom I liked far back when I was in secondary school.My parents where rich then..I loved this girl so much that we never had sex until the right time.she promised to keep herself for me and no other guy.I brought her out,she was 15 and i was 17..I started paying her school fees with my own pocket money I saved..I paid all her sec school fees even waec before I traveled out of Nigeria.. I still worked and sent her money for her jamb and university. my parents where not aware..I sent her money even as off last 3 months. I did everything which b4 I wanted to travel I asked her for us to have sex at least she said no till I get back and marry her that she keep herself for me..The last time I came back last month b4 then we were talking on phone and I came back to discover she was no more a virgin which she told me and begging me to forgive her that she is even pregnant for the guy..and I love her so much I want to marry her I trained her til she was 22 years from secondary to university even clothes and sent money for her mom intending to marry her.but now she paid me back with this..am confused now please help me.please..gosh crying

My guy, norrin you fit do again o. Jesus say it is finished come close eyes pkai. Those are the words your relationship with this woman said "It is finished". Eh, my bros, move on with life. To most women sha, out of sight is out of mind and she was even using you. Sef. Collecting from you and fuging anothervman. Chei some people wicked sha. Eh dont think all women ar like that o. Its same as if a woman says all men are the same. Just take a break, have fun and mingle with people. When you are ready to marry, biko dont train any woman in the name of "I will marry her later" marry her and train her or let her papa train her. This thing dikwa ihian o. Sorry. Count your loss and move on to better things.

I love her so much and can't leave her thanks to Russian rebels war at lugansk I can stay for my immigration is complete..I need help even if to take care of the baby I will please..need help

chester47: I love her so much and can't leave her thanks to Russian rebels war at lugansk I can stay for my immigration is complete..I need help even if to take care of the baby I will please..need help

......Take care of who's baby,bro are u loosing it?don't lemme hear such again from ur mouth.....

chester47: I love her so much and can't leave her thanks to Russian rebels war at lugansk I can stay for my immigration is complete..I need help even if to take care of the baby I will please..need help

Gbam.....I rest my case. We dey talk one another dey happen right in front of us.
Eh, you no really need help o. Since you ready drag another man pikin with am. Ok nau. If the love strong reach so, forgive her and continue the relationship nau.
If the man is not aware of the child then go ahead but if he is aware and, is willing to be in his childs life, you cant just take the child away from him.
As for ya babe, of she is still ready to date you then by all means forgive her and start anew with her.
NB, its not easy to love another persons child just like yours o. Many parents will attest to this. You think you love a child? Wait till you have yours and then you will know what it means to really love a child.
No mater howmuch you love and care for a child that isnt yours, when you have yours, you may treat them differently from the addopted one. So just be aware of that and try to direct your judgement when you notice any partial treatment towards your addopted child. May God help you.

You paid for her secondary school education huh? You're older than her with only 2 years. Meaning that you've been paying her fees since you were about 12 years old. Yeah right!

chester47: I love her so much and can't leave her thanks to Russian rebels war at lugansk I can stay for my immigration is complete..I need help even if to take care of the baby I will please..need help

if she is worth fighting for, then fight for the woman you love

chester47: I need help on what to do my life is finished..READ THIS PLEASE
I met a young lady whom I liked far back when I was in secondary school.My parents where rich then..I loved this girl so much that we never had sex until the right time.she promised to keep herself for me and no other guy.I brought her out,she was 15 and i was 17..I started paying her school fees with my own pocket money I saved..I paid all her sec school fees even waec before I traveled out of Nigeria.. I still worked and sent her money for her jamb and university. my parents where not aware..I sent her money even as off last 3 months. I did everything which b4 I wanted to travel I asked her for us to have sex at least she said no till I get back and marry her that she keep herself for me..The last time I came back last month b4 then we were talking on phone and I came back to discover she was no more a virgin which she told me and begging me to forgive her that she is even pregnant for the guy..and I love her so much I want to marry her I trained her til she was 22 years from secondary to university even clothes and sent money for her mom intending to marry her.but now she paid me back with this..am confused now please help me.please..gosh crying

guy I feel ur pain wipe ur tears. My only advice 4 u now is to become GAY. U have their looks. Buhahahahahaha. BTW when nxt ur cooking LIE soup don't 4get maggi.

chester47: I need help on what to do my life is finished..READ THIS PLEASE
I met a young lady whom I liked far back when I was in secondary school.My parents where rich then..I loved this girl so much that we never had sex until the right time.she promised to keep herself for me and no other guy.I brought her out,she was 15 and i was 17..I started paying her school fees with my own pocket money I saved..I paid all her sec school fees even waec before I traveled out of Nigeria.. I still worked and sent her money for her jamb and university. my parents where not aware..I sent her money even as off last 3 months. I did everything which b4 I wanted to travel I asked her for us to have sex at least she said no till I get back and marry her that she keep herself for me..The last time I came back last month b4 then we were talking on phone and I came back to discover she was no more a virgin which she told me and begging me to forgive her that she is even pregnant for the guy..and I love her so much I want to marry her I trained her til she was 22 years from secondary to university even clothes and sent money for her mom intending to marry her.but now she paid me back with this..am confused now please help me.please..gosh crying

guy I feel ur pain wipe ur tears. My only advice 4 u now is to become GAY. U have their looks. Buhahahahahaha. BTW when nxt ur cooking LIE soup don't 4get maggi...............meanwhile; Nairalander on BBA hot_shot!!!! Let's show him our support, check my signature.

Katier00: if she is worth fighting for, then fight for the woman you love

In this case, she isnt worth fighting for. The scalesof infatuation needs to be pulled out from the op's eyes.

chester47: I love her so much and can't leave her thanks to Russian rebels war at lugansk I can stay for my immigration is complete..I need help even if to take care of the baby I will please..need help

No, you dont love her. You dont know what love is...

Simply put, the scales of infatuation needs to be pulled out from your eyes. Continue with her at your peril but my sincere advise to you is, there's no need crying over spilled milk...

all dis adolescent rlatnshp cef.. At d age of 17 u start'd payin 4 ha skul fees? Hmm and nw ah quesx u ar 24, and ur lyf's finished? In summary, u ar bemused se.x seeker..

uboma:

In this case, she isnt worth fighting for. The scalesof infatuation needs to be pulled out from the op's eyes.

You are very funny

Katier00: You are very funny

Funny but true...

uboma:

Funny but true...

But do you know it can be love? I had once loved someone to a point that everything he did was right to me and i always find a way of defending his actions even when its hurts. That is love to me

Katier00: But do you know it can be love? I had once loved someone to a point that everything he did was right to me and i always find a way of defending his actions even when its hurts. That is love to me

Picture this scenerio...

You are dating this guy and you go out of your way to do things for him. he is in school and he has no sponsor. You support him with money, clothes and food from time to time. How would you react when after years of assisiting this dude and hoping that upon graduation from school, securing a job, that he will tie the marital knot with you, he finally opens up to say that he intends marrying another who is pregnant for him? Will you still be interested in trying to woo him? Maybe you will. If at this point, you still have hopes that the table will turn around to your favour, then you are not in love. Love isnt blind. The signs are very obvious that he doesnt love you so why hang on?

lmao
Na from small you don be mumu,u come go abroad go collect masters degree on top and naim you dey exhibit so..

KAI,person wey help the girl do charm use tortise nose naim make am tight like that

Are you for real Anyway,you are just seeking attention.

huh

Begonia: You paid for her secondary school education huh? You're older than her with only 2 years. Meaning that you've been paying her fees since you were about 12 years old. Yeah right!

no 15

uboma:


Picture this scenerio...

You are dating this guy and you go out of your way to do things for him. he is in school and he has no sponsor. You support him with money, clothes and food from time to time. How would you react when after years of assisiting this dude and hoping that upon graduation from school, securing a job, that he will tie the marital knot with you, he finally opens up to say that he intends marrying another who is pregnant for him? Will you still be interested in trying to woo him? Maybe you will. If at this point, you still have hopes that the table will turn around to your favour, then you are not in love. Love isnt blind. The signs are very obvious that he doesnt love you so why hang on?

you are rig