My friends wife is a teacher @ primary school level and she has two students from the same family that she takes on extra lesson in the evening and these two has been among the best in the entire school. But at the middle of this year a problem erupted in that family which led to the separation of the parents, the wife need to pack out of the house and the children were in their fathers custody because the wife was alleged of cheating on the husband. After the separation my friends wife still continue with the evening lesson with the children but she added other duties like cooking for the family citing cases of situation where she will meet them hungary or not eating tangible meal when she goes to teach them, my friend initially objected to this but he later consider it just because this children has been giving his wife career credit through their excellent performance in school. But just yesterday when my friend accidentally checked his wife phone he saw SMS alert of N150k from this children s farther and when he asked his wife about the money since her allowance for the lesson is just N30k, his wife explanation is that the man want her to help him shop for some personal effects for the kids. My friend called me today and he want me to advise him on this, he said his wife has been closer to the family after the eviction of their mother although he has not suspected the wife of having an affair outside the marriage before.

eww...a poorer man's wife is about to go

spotit:
eww...a poorer man's wife is about to go

Should he stop her from taking them any evening lesson again

Failed education system.

The school's best students get extra lessons for what?
Teachers take children home for what?

First of all, teachers should focus more on the weaker ones.
Secondly, there should be a separation between home and work.

Every thing this woman does for that family has to be restricted to teaching henceforth...tell your friend that.

carefreewannabe:
Failed education system.

The school's best students get extra lessons for what?
Teachers take children home for what?

First of all, teachers should focus more on the weaker ones.
Secondly, there should be a separation between home and work.

I believe what he typed was, 'and these two have been among the best in the entire school.'

crackhaus:

I believe what he typed was, 'and these two has been among the best in the entire school.'

Thank you.
Best or among the best, there is still no need to take them home in the evening if they are among the best.
And even the weakest should be given extra lessons in school and not at home.

carefreewannabe:


Thank you.
Best or among the best, there is still no need to take them home in the evening if they are among the best.
And even the weakest should be given extra lessons in school and not at home.

Have you explored the possibility they may previously have been among the weaker ones or less than average hence the need to get extra lessons?

crackhaus:

Have you explored the possibility they may previously have been among the weaker ones or less than average hence the need to get extra lessons?

Mission accomplished.
Next ones.
And at school.

carefreewannabe:


Mission accomplished.
Next ones.
And at school.

What's wrong with home lessons though?
I had some of those for a while anytime my mama couldn't handle my trouble or get me to read my books after school hours.

crackhaus:

What's wrong with home lessons though?
I had some of those for a while anytime my mama couldn't handle my trouble or get me to read my books after school hours.

I also received some private lessons but not from my school teachers.
I remember my parents paid a university student to give me private lessons who visited us at home.

A teacher who marks his students must maintain some amount of distance to be objective in the marking process.
This is what professional teachers do. My two cents. You are free to disagree though. Maybe I can learn something new.

Doesn't the father have sisters or relatives to take care of all their private needs?

Why must she be the one to do it? ;If your friend is not comfortable with the development, let him tell her to stop doing all these extra activities and concentrate on the lesson.

adeokunade:
Should he stop her from taking them any evening lesson again

there has to be a very honest explanation for the exponential sum before anything

edwife:
Doesn't the father have sisters or relatives to take care of all their private needs?

Why must she be the one to do it? ;If your friend is not comfortable with the development, let him tell her to stop doing all these extra activities and concentrate on the lesson.

And the kids still have a mother.
Even if she cheated on her husband, doesn't mean she should not take care of her kids.
And she can take care of them even when they stay with their father.

Please dt money has K leg. Dt explanation is 0. Y will a man send a teacher 150k to shop, is she his wife or maid. Dt excuse is too poor. Very fishy, please she should explain. He should monitor d situation, something is involved

carefreewannabe:


I also received some private lessons but not from my school teachers.
I remember my parents paid a university student to give me private lessons who visited us at home.

A teacher who marks his students must maintain some amount of distance to be objective in the marking process.
This is what professional teachers do. My two cents. You are free to disagree though. Maybe I can learn something new.

Oh well..now that you tell me I'm free to disagree with you, I don't feel like it anymore.

crackhaus:

Oh well..now that you tell me I'm free to disagree with you, I don't feel like it anymore.

Trouble maker disagree now.
I am still sitting at my writing desk working. I need some distraction.

carefreewannabe:


Trouble maker disagree now.
I am still sitting at my writing desk working. I need some distraction.

At my expense?

crackhaus:

At my expense?

It's not your expense, it's your hobby.

carefreewannabe:


It's not your expense, it's your hobby.

If by hobby you mean - catching you slipping, then yea that's one of my hobbies on NL

crackhaus:

If by hobby you mean - catching you slipping, then yea that's one of my hobbies on NL

Your hobby is very boring.
I don't slip.

carefreewannabe:


And the kids still have a mother.
Even if she cheated on her husband, doesn't mean she should not take care of her kids.
And she can take care of them even when they stay with their father.

Exactly!or maybe he banned her from seeing the kids,who knows?

Yeye dey smell

d woman is takn place of d man's wife nah,besides ur friend shud beta stop d wife from going to dat hauz besides y cant ur friend's wife help d oda woman to reconcile wt her husband

carefreewannabe:


Your hobby is very boring.
I don't slip.

I wasn't expecting you to agree.

carefreewannabe:


I also received some private lessons but not from my school teachers.
I remember my parents paid a university student to give me private lessons who visited us at home.

A teacher who marks his students must maintain some amount of distance to be objective in the marking process.
This is what professional teachers do. My two cents. You are free to disagree though. Maybe I can learn something new.

She is not their class teacher in school, she was even recommended by another teacher in the same school so she doesn't get to mark any of their script.

adeokunade:
She is not their class teacher in school, she was even recommended by another teacher in the same school so she doesn't get to mark any of their script.

She can become their teacher later on though, can't she?

Anyway.

She shouldn't take students home unless they are in danger or homeless.
This isn't professional. My two cents.

that woman, as nice as she's been made out to be, is further driven by bigger financial and possibly ulterior romantic interests beyond just her instructional role to the kids

most poster seemed to miss the point here, imagine the other poster claiming to be smart.well nland is for all ages i guess

@op
theres fire on the mountian, something not right, tell your friend or if its you to find out the REAL CAUSE OF the separation start from there, the lady teacher may be involved sef, even if shes not, something fishy is DEFINITELY on going

Tell your friend to leave the wife there,till the man snatches his wife from him.

carefreewannabe:


She can become their teacher later on though, can't she?

Anyway.

She shouldn't take students home unless they are in danger or homeless.
This isn't professional. My two cents.

she goes to the children s house to teach them, not her own home