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What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Prettypresh(f): 12:06am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Pls no insults pls. Mod front page pls. Let me start by askin ds qustn, wen a woman is bn denied of sex by her husband for 16 months, dos it affect her emotionally and psychologically? B4 i delievrd we stopd bn intimate nd my baby is a yr plus 3 months nw, each tym d issue is bn raised he gets angry. Am jst so empty rite nw,dnt knw wat to do. Matured advice pls nd no insults o. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Mutuwa(m): 12:14am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Prettypresh: And ur quiet sure his not having it elsewhere? Else some thing is really wrong with him..in fact it's a ground for divorce (tho am not advising) but dts something within yourself.try talking him into seeing a psychologist,coz it's not normal,except if and only if he gets it outside,see a psychiatrist/ psychologist. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Nobody: 12:31am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Ok, good thing this is not the romance section if not I would've ignored it. After childbirth, things change down there. Its possible your husband feels things are too loose for now. Whether elasticity returns to normal or not only time would tell. Another possible reason is stress from work and taking care of things including the baby. Every other thing seems to take a back-seat when a baby is involved in a marriage. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by BTT(m): 12:52am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Based on your previous posts, you know the man has got the child he wanted. He has gone back to his wife. Shikena. It never ceases to amaze me why people refuse to tell themselves the truth Prettypresh: . |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by nkemoke: 1:13am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Aunty Presh, Why waste ur energy on a man that's not urs? U're not married to him, so he has just used you to get the child he's ever wanted. He was never really out for ur welfare, neither was any love he proclaimed for you true. I'd have advised you to pray 4 restoration but alas God will not honour it cos it's outside his will. Rather pray for God to heal your heart and give you the wisdom to get back on ur feet, pull urself together and enjoy the fullness of God's will for your life. Give ur life to Christ. The world is yet to see your best. Shallom!!! |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Godmother(f): 7:13am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Prettypresh: You talked about not wanting to destroy someone's home by keeping the pregnancy, but you should have known that's what you were doing by agreeing to date a married man in the first place. You keep asking people not to insult you because deep down in your heart you know what you did is wrong. Pls leave the man alone. He gotten what he needs from you. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by rutibaby(f): 9:20am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Are u sure he has not contacted a deadly disease from someone else and don't want it transfered into u. I just think so. Start praying 4 him oh. That's if only he is ur husband. If not keep off. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by UniqueGem(m): 5:36pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Aunty, since i've learnt the man is not legally your husband, i'm sorry to tell you this but 'This Is Just The Beginning Of The End'. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Wendy80(f): 6:21pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Prettypresh:From ur previous post u said ds Man is a married man and u went ahead to date him so he can take care of Ur needs. U need to tell urself the truth, he only used you to get a child and has gone back to his Dear Wife. All I can tell U now is to face ur studies and strive to become a better person. Be interested in Ur child's welfare and not having sex with anoda woman's husband. U've made a mistake by having a child for a married man don't complicate matters by still hanging on to him. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Saraha1(f): 1:41am On Oct 30, 2014 |
Wetin I go call this one? Shey na husband snacher or home breaker? Hmmm. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by LizNaira: 8:55am On Oct 30, 2014 |
I read somewhere that sometimes women let go off their appearance and do not even try to look attractive for their husband, my you need to put in a bit of effort. But if you have not changed your routine perhaps theirs is another woman involved! Ask him what's up? |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by PapiWata: 2:26pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
There is a hard fact that I must relate to you, Ms. Pretty. The most likely times when a husband will cheat on his wife are during pregnancy and literally any time thereafter. All men are genetically hard-wired to seek out single women who clearly have NEVER been pregnant, and who are in the full bloom of youth, and, the instant their own wives no longer fit that desirable category, husbands will look for new flesh outside of the matrimonial home. This instinctual lust and pleasure-seeking behavior can NEVER be stopped, so the best you can hope for would be bogus PROMISES from your husband that he will remain true to his marriage vows. No matter how solemn the pledge of love and fidelity offered on your wedding day, BIOLOGY will take over the instant your middle swells with a pregnancy, for that is the point in time when your man will begin to expend enormous mental energy thinking up ways to score with young single women at every possible opportunity that presents itself. Rather than try and change the fundamental character of a man by expecting him to be faithful to you as you age, accept that your husband WILL play the field, and limit yourself to requesting that he use a condom to ensure no diseases are brought home from those extra-marital adventures. To address the issue of not getting enough nookie with your man, I urge you NOT to go out and cheat as well, but rather to purchase for yourself a battery-operated vvibrator that will get your rocks off in multiple fashion, whenever the mood takes you. When you have used such a device for a while, you will discover that with you controlling its operation to your exact specifications, you will derive more pleasure and satisfaction than ANY man could EVER give you, no matter how young or well endowed he may be. Matter of fact, after a few weeks of using that little helper, you will wonder to yourself how on earth you managed to get by without one for so long. In conclusion, your peace of mind will come from (1) Recognizing and accepting with no grudge that ALL men are essentially horn-dogs, and that ALL married men WILL get some innocent nookie on the side, and (2) Taking your own pleasure into your own hands, so to speak, by obtaining a vvibrator to take you above and beyond any intensity of pleasure and satisfaction that you have EVER experienced in your past both as a single girl and now as a married woman. 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by UniqueGem(m): 7:44pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
PapiWata:Sir please stop wasting your saliva, she's not married yet. 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Drdonzeez(m): 8:49pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Be thoughtful and show maturity in your writings .she only seeked an advice |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Drdonzeez(m): 8:52pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Be thoughtful and show maturity in your writings .she only seeked an advice...you're not a saint |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by PapiWata: 3:51am On Oct 31, 2014 |
UniqueGem: Don't worry. Your wife will never read my words here in Jesus name, so your consultations with that young woman may continue as usual. |
Re: What Do I Do? Denial Of Sex For Almost 16 Months Now. by Zikkie(f): 5:40pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Babe, I'm sorry but you know the truth and are probably living in denial. That man isn't your husband.... Are you living together? I guess NO! Pls move on with your life and start up a fresh relationship if you can. Forget that man, if not, you'll obviously be fighting a battle you'ld never win... |
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