I got married in april dis year,currently a serving corper. My husband doesn't stay whr I serve I only visit him sm wkends. I jus found dat I hv missed my period and am nt ready to hv a baby now,I dnt tink I can cope wit service stress n pregnancy I wnt to gt rid of it its jus 3wks old bt my husband is nt aware. Pls I need ur advice

Please do not contemplate it cos if you do, your husband may conclude that its a pregnancy of infidelity. Do speak with him about it and let him decide but do not mention that you intend getting rid of it.

Are you sure you're married? or you just want drugs to flush out that pregnancy? God, ALOT of women would give anything to be in your position, what if after dis another pregnancy doesn't come again,so long as you're married keep it, God will give you strength and grace.

What stress is there in service? You should keep the baby and think about it as any other normal period of your life after service.

Dear if truly u're pregnant, I'll say keep it. There are 101 women on nairaland that are going through troubles and stress trying to conceive including my humble self and u want to abort urs. What if this is ur only chanxe to have a baby? What if u end up having infectious disease or something? Mind you, not all men are patient to stay by ttc woman. My dear that God's heritage in ur womb is a precious gift from God to ur home. Don't destroy ur home with this. Pls how long do u intend to keep this from ur hubby? Do u intend to build ur home on lies and deceit? What if hubby finds out and take it up? Hmmmmmmmmmm sister, think twice. Baby and service has nothing in common.

Helen4 said it all. Keep the baby and keep your marriage. It's not that difficult. You're strong enough to do it. All the best.

While I am impressed by your openess, I will want to make a careful suggestion: let vemma be part of your nutritional health drink. I got some guys that bought vemma from me on the account that it helped one of their own to conceive. They got my blog www.netmax.vemma.com and gave me a call. @OP, you already have answers. God bless

helen4:
Dear if truly u're pregnant, I'll say keep it. There are 101 women on nairaland that are going through troubles and stress trying to conceive including my humble self and u want to abort urs. What if this is ur only chanxe to have a baby? What if u end up having infectious disease or something? Mind you, not all men are patient to stay by ttc woman. My dear that God's heritage in ur womb is a precious gift from God to ur home. Don't destroy ur home with this. Pls how long do u intend to keep this from ur hubby? Do u intend to build ur home on lies and deceit? What if hubby finds out and take it up? Hmmmmmmmmmm sister, think twice. Baby and service has nothing in common.

There is nothing more to say. May God answer your own prayer in no distant time. Amen