Okay... Good Afternoon N'Landers.
I've had this question nagging my mind for quite a while now. I'm a Christian, a catholic by birth and by choice. I've seen people, here on N'Land, who say they don't believe in the existence of God or religion. Like these people are neither Christians nor muslims. Personally, I've got nothing against nobody; atheist or muslim, and I haven't had the opportunity of meeting anybody who's a freethinker. So I'm directing this nagging question to them atheists on-here. As an atheist or a freethinker, where would you get married, like where would you wed your wife?

There are still courts around. I expected a tougher question to there atheists.

Reyginus:
There are still courts around. I expected a tougher question to there atheists.

I was expecting someone to say that. As a lady, I know most ladies won't settle for just court wedding, we all want something grand, you know.

Reyginus:
There are still courts around. I expected a tougher question to there atheists.

Exactly.

Some of us, myself inclusive, would have no problems with church wedding. Were it not for my animosity towards Islam, I might have no problems getting married the islamic way.

I see no problem getting married in the church if my wife wants it.

At least, it is just for a few hours.

In UK, castles are popular, if you are after grandness".

There are also dedicated venues in areas of natural beauty, if you are after romance.

Not all women are the same. Some like the splash of a public wedding with every tom, dick and harry invited. Others prefer the warmth of a close circle of friends. Some will be disappointed if it rains, others will seize the opportunity to feel the cheer, good will and support of their loyal guests.

(I would never marry a religious woman, though! -- so I wouldn't be in a situation of anyone dragging me to a church.)

Reyginus:
I expected a tougher question to there atheists.

me too



xcapizt, question for u

sinequanon:


(I would never marry a religious woman, though! -- so I wouldn't be in a situation of anyone dragging me to a church.)

Wow!!!

even if u are a xtian or Muslim, must u wed in d church or mosque?


is it written anywhere in d bible dat it must take place in d church? jes asking

AfricanApple:
even if u are a xtian or Muslim, must u wed in d church or mosque?


is it written anywhere in d bible dat it must take place in d church? jes asking

You seem to be picking the wrong idea here. I'm not asking because it's a must for every christian or muslim to wed in the church or mosque-even though most do, I'm asking because it's a question I need an answer to. And just so you know, it's written in the bible that a man weds his wife, it's called 'Holy Matrimony' (though I can't quote the particular bible verse and chapter-not much of a bible reader- but I know its there.

MzPreshie:
I was expecting someone to say that. As a lady, I know most ladies won't settle for just court wedding, we all want something grand, you know.

Okay.

MzPreshie:
You seem to be picking the wrong idea here. I'm not asking because it's a must for every christian or muslim to wed in the church or mosque-even though most do, I'm asking because it's a question I need an answer to. And just so you know, it's written in the bible that a man weds his wife, it's called 'Holy Matrimony' (though I can't quote the particular bible verse and chapter-not much of a bible reader- but I know its there.

u rather got me wrong.
since u said its not a must dat a xtian weds in d church, then I don't see d need for your question cos there are a number of places one could wed


but wait o, is your guy a freethinker? or u planning to become one?

MzPreshie:
Okay... Good Afternoon N'Landers.
I've had this question nagging my mind for quite a while now. I'm a Christian, a catholic by birth and by choice. I've seen people, here on N'Land, who say they don't believe in the existence of God or religion. Like these people are neither Christians nor muslims. Personally, I've got nothing against nobody; atheist or muslim, and I haven't had the opportunity of meeting anybody who's a freethinker. So I'm directing this nagging question to them atheists on-here. As an atheist or a freethinker, where would you get married, like where would you wed your wife?

I would prefer to marry her in a Sagamu Shrine where my babalawo would give us a concoction to eat and seal the wedding.

sinequanon:
In UK, castles are popular, if you are after grandness".

There are also dedicated venues in areas of natural beauty, if you are after romance.

Not all women are the same. Some like the splash of a public wedding with every tom, dick and harry invited. Others prefer the warmth of a close circle of friends. Some will be disappointed if it rains, others will seize the opportunity to feel the cheer, good will and support of their loyal guests.

(I would never marry a religious woman, though! -- so I wouldn't be in a situation of anyone dragging me to a church.)

Lolz
well said!

But there are no religious women nowadays...

Except those looking for husbands or having marital problems

Sagamite:


I would prefer to marry her in a Sagamu Shrine where my babalawo would give us a concoction to eat and seal the wedding.

lmaoooo

AfricanApple:

but wait o, is your guy a freethinker? or u planning to become one?

Lol... None of the above.

Sagamite:


I would prefer to marry her in a Sagamu Shrine where my babalawo would give us a concoction to eat and seal the wedding.

Lol...

MzPreshie:
Okay... Good Afternoon N'Landers.
I've had this question nagging my mind for quite a while now. I'm a Christian, a catholic by birth and by choice. I've seen people, here on N'Land, who say they don't believe in the existence of God or religion. Like these people are neither Christians nor muslims. Personally, I've got nothing against nobody; atheist or muslim, and I haven't had the opportunity of meeting anybody who's a freethinker. So I'm directing this nagging question to them atheists on-here. As an atheist or a freethinker, where would you get married, like where would you wed your wife?

It is not a must for us to get married. However i had mine in Las Vegas.

herald9:

Lolz
well said!

But there are no religious women nowadays...

Except those looking for husbands or having marital problems

For me, a woman who even says she is religious is a big NO!

So, pretend religious or for real religious, it's no way.

Marriage is overrated.

MzPreshie:
Okay... Good Afternoon N'Landers.
I've had this question nagging my mind for quite a while now. I'm a Christian, a catholic by birth and by choice. I've seen people, here on N'Land, who say they don't believe in the existence of God or religion. Like these people are neither Christians nor muslims. Personally, I've got nothing against nobody; atheist or muslim, and I haven't had the opportunity of meeting anybody who's a freethinker. So I'm directing this nagging question to them atheists on-here. As an atheist or a freethinker, where would you get married, like where would you wed your wife?

I'll only get married because of the legal implications. I think those wedding vows you do in church are uncalled for. So court wedding it is. We can have a mad reception after.

finofaya:


I'll only get married because of the legal implications. I think those wedding vows you do in church are uncalled for. So court wedding it is. We can have a mad reception after.

Hmmm... Alright. Thanks.

Well,despite the fact that I'm an atheist, I solely believe in my culture and tradition. So if I'm gonna marry ( I honestly don't think I will tho) ,I will probably do a court and native ( I don't like the word traditional) wedding. But if my wife happens to be a xtian or Muslim and she wants the church or Islamic wedding, I don't have a prob with that. Afterall, its just for some few hours. It's all about understanding.

- its just an expression!

MzPreshie:
Hmmm... Alright. Thanks.

mom where on earth are u ?? Have been searching every thrad looking for u

I choose 'B'. But I'll just marry her 4 her wealth, and find solace in another woman outside d marriage.

ghost1718:
where on earth are u ?? Have been searching every thrad looking for u

I'm here now. Missed me?

MzPreshie:
I'm here now. Missed me?

how do u want me to say it i missed uuuuuuuuuuu

ghost1718:
how do u want me to say it i missed uuuuuuuuuuu

Lol... It's same here. How have you been?

MzPreshie:
Lol... It's same here. How have you been?

mom u left me hungry nah