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Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 7:58pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
coogar: I Joke a lot oh but there are somethings I don't joke with esp when I know it will hurt the person I love. the money he burrowed better worth a fortune. Marriage institution is becoming a joke. What do they teach teach people in their marriage class. And na Nigerians go marriage class pass |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 8:02pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
cococandy: You never know what many men would say in order to hit The honey pot. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by coogar: 8:08pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Chillisauce: so if it's worth a fortune, you would overlook the text message? chilli chilli
men don't always mean what they say to the opposite sėx. all those psyches are a means to an end. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by cococandy(f): 8:09pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
coogar: seems like you deliberately misunderstood that my post. I said it is possible the man didn't even cheat on her when they were courting. It is very possible. If that was the case,what was there for her to discover if there was nothing to discover? You're just looking at it from one angle.
he still went ahead to cheat with another and another and another? All these women still couldn't make up for whatever it is his wife is lacking? It doesn't take a soothsayer to know that the problem is from him and not from the wife. Ok let me just indulge you and agree that it is the wife's fault. What happened to communication And seeking a possible compromise? When did cheating become a remedy for perceived problems in the Union? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Chillisauce:lol |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by coogar: 8:14pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
cococandy: cheats are not born post-marital - they are born pre-marital. he musta been cheating in the past & he just carried on with the bad attitude.
it's taking him time to realise there's no perfect woman....he would hit 100 before he gets the idea that marriage is all about accepting (manageable)imperfections of the spouse -
how do you know he's not tried communicating that yielded no results? i hope you are aware some wives don't like to be corrected or criticised especially on sensitive issues. there are different people out there - you can only find few sane marriages these days. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Ok coogar: |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by lifenocks: 8:19pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
BABE3: @babe i married him as a virgin if u must know n got pregnant 5 month after wedding. N he was not a cheat then. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 8:29pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Comedy central Marriage has suffered! But on a serious note, some serial cheat stopped after tying the knot honestly. On d other hand some started after marriage while some didn't change after marriage. But in all we still hv d faithful ones among us and they r many. Kudos to them. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Coogar,who told u cheats r not born post marital? Where did u get this one from? Hei Coooogar! Fear God o . |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by BABE3: 8:45pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
lifenocks: Your husband is the villain and you're the saint; I accept. On a serious and realistic note; Humans are always going to be humans; forget the crap about 2 becoming 1 in a marriage; we are all selfish. You are the only one that can love yourself the way you want to be loved. You have to protect yourself at all times (even from the ones that love you most or the ones you love); coz when they hurt you, it hurts the most. So, moving forward, stop expecting total loyalty from people. Now at this junction, you have two options; 1) accept that you have a cheating husband, and look the other way (don't look too far though coz you wouldn't want STDs). Manage and live through the marriage, like most people do in their marriages. 2) get a divorce. Except there's something fundamentally wrong from your end, discard the "fasting ,praying, changing and hoping" advices you're getting. Anything other than options 1 & 2 will drive you crazy, literally. Remember you have a kid/s. I advised you based on the fact that he's the villain and you're the angel. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 8:46pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
lifenocks: LOBATAN! A man just goes from being a virgin to 3+x sexual partners? I give up on marriage, I swear! You just can never win Bia, op, how you sabi say him be virgin? |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by BABE3: 8:47pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Olodo. She's the virgin. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by coogar: 8:48pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
moca: cheats are not born post-marital - just because you didn't notice doesn't mean he wasn't doing it in his bachelorhood. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by baby124: 8:54pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Is it NL that calls cheating, flirting? I see this all the time or is it a slang. Flirting and cheating are two different things entirely. OP please next time be more precise. Thank you. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by BABE3: 8:55pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
coogar: You sure? Remember that story about the man that got married to his beautiful high school sweetheart. They found out they were sèxually incompatible after marriage. She wanted sèx once a year; he had a normal libido. He tried being a good man for 10 years or so. He later gave up on the wife and became a serial cheat. How about that? |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by coogar: 9:08pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
BABE3: who told this story? i can't remember this story - maybe you have to find the article so i can comment on it. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Winken: 9:25pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
mutter: God bless you real good for this comment. Wish I can have your number. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
I have seen men cheat after marriage. Some men (virgins inclusive) were not bold enough or didnt cheat cos of their background and didnt have a strong belief against cheating. The moment they start moving with cheating friends circumstance or something brought their way after marriage, they start unconsciously/consciously toiling with the idea. Some are even offered chicks by these friends and they wont say no so as not to be seen as 'juman', before you know it they are worse than their friends... But op i think your man was a premarital cheat, decide how you will deal with him cos he will continue as long as want to accomodate it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Amazingg: 9:48pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
BABE3: you just made me laugh |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 10:04pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
BABE3: oops! My brain must be on sabbatical leave Thanks for the clarification, I for fear |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 10:12pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
mutter: You have to realise what you have just written is disgusting. I wonder if you are a man posting as a female 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
cococandy: Ermmmm nope, I've seen a post an a woman who was suspected of cheating and mutter was all over it calling for the woman to be hung and quartered, I don't understand her 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by cococandy(f): 10:29pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
fem29: I don't understand herjoin the club |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
cococandy: Na wa. She really rubs me up the wrong way, she is a menist , nothing a man does can be faulted, it's always the woman's fault, haba 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
fem29:warped |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by freecocoa(f): 10:57pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
From some of the comments here, it seems like 'change' shouldn't be a word since they believe it doesn't exist. I never knew a man can't start cheating after marriage, yet there once was a virgin man who started cheating after marriage. Okay o. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 11:40pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Abeg go and enjoy yourself before u kill yourself over ordinary husband 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by obowunmi(m): 1:13am On Dec 07, 2014 |
You knew he was a cheat yet you married him anyway. Stop disturbing us with rubbish post. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 10:50am On Dec 07, 2014 |
Wendy80:Woman 95% of Nigerian men are polygamous,just because you havent caught your man makes him monogamous. |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 07, 2014 |
Let the truth be told most men are polygamous,and they dont have a reason to have extra-marital affairs. Woman,for you to have rest of mind,do as women of old,they accepted the reality. Ask your mum,if your dad,never had extra marital affairs,how did she handle it? If you wanted to be a modern woman,you walk out of the marriage.who told you the next man wont have extra marital affairs. You may decide to be vengeful and engage in extra marital affair,if caught,it will be your disgrace and your family. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Flirting.... by Wendy80(f): 11:36am On Dec 07, 2014 |
samisparkle24: My Man is monogamous. I speak for myself. If U are, at least 5% aren't going by UR calculation. 1 Like |
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