BUT YES YOU CAN!!!
Fear and doubt will deny you the wonderful results of your talent. There is nothing impossible to a determined mind, you know. This has been my watch word. As we understand that; creativity, determination and courage are the closest PAL to success. The successful always sort different ways to overcome the hurdles of life and never give up when one door shuts. But the failure is orphan to the successful who never finds anything good in others. He believes that he is incapacitated in all things; hoping to get things all the time from people. One thing you should know is, when you trust man and fail to believe in yourself and that you have been made for; you can never be able to stand the disappointment that will emanate from those you trust.
Why then should you put your trust in man who lives today and tomorrow he is no more? Why should I hope in man when everyone is driving to be ahead of others in terms of financial accumulation? No one is satisfied with riches and wealth rather the rich exploit the poor. Millions who called themselves 'failure' are the millions who always say 'I can't'; accepting failure before an attempt. One thing I learned from all the successful ones I have come across is; 'the never say die attitude they possessed'. This has kept me going even when all measures fail to yield positive results. I kept on believing in myself that I am different from every human being on earth, I have a unique gift and talent that make me different. I have a unique name and I am wonderfully and fearfully made by the Almighty. And I was created for a purpose not by accident; the Creator God who thought of me before my existence had designed unimaginable things to establish me. To be frank these words have kept me going despite all I have been through.
One thing you should know is; where ever you are in life, know that in one single instant you just need to DECIDE what you really want. Fear is the symptom of doubt which is generated by the anxiety of failure. So you must put fear and worry behind you; pick courage and faith for they will guard you, while many that rejected them failed. You need to be faithful to yours.
FIVE RECIPE FOR SUCCESS
1. You're going to have to let go of your agenda. Your agenda is what you made up along the way because you didn't know what else to do with your life. Up to this point you've done everything you knew to do to make the most of your life. But if there's something in you telling you that you could be much more, then you haven't opened the box wide enough. Often it's our own contrived agendas that get in the way of who we were meant to be. Stop trying so hard to play a role, and just be YOU.
2. You're going to have to keep it real. Probably the #1 impediment to growth is the facade we were taught to wear. The masks are going to have to come off. You're going to have to get real with yourself first, and honestly will flow from there.
3. You're going to have to cultivate openness. Are you willing to learn from an idiot, or to look like one? The choice is yours.
4. You're going to have to be outgoing. This may rattle my introverted friends out there. But before you change the channel, you might be surprised to find that I consider myself an introvert. I enjoy spending time alone more than I do spending time with company. And my battery recharges when I'm alone vs. getting charged by being around others. Those are classic symptoms of an introvert (writers are very often introverts who would rather let the pen speak for them). There are ways of being outgoing that don't include being the "party freak." In other words, you have to be willing to put yourself out there by making your voice heard and expressing yourself.
5. You're going to have to believe in yourself. For most of us, this is where the rubber meets the road and the tires fall off our car. When you've had a string of losses it's real difficult to keep telling yourself (and other people) that you're making a comeback. But I'd like to share with you a secret I found that's a game-changer: everybody likes rooting for an underdog. Other people relate to failure, because they've experienced a whole heap of it themselves. So when you're willing to get real about your failures (rule #2), you'll find people opening up about theirs. It's not what the media tells us to do-that's why this sounds counter-intuitive. But I've found in real life, people relate more to your failures than to your triumphs. You don't have to be perfect to believe in yourself. Just believe in your potential. Because I do (believe in you). Others will too, as soon as you realize that your past doesn't have to determine your present. Release your grip on failure. Learn from it, but don't get mired in it. You're more than a set of outdated circumstances.
The place inside yourself where nothing is impossible is closer than you think. It's not a matter of can you unlock your dreams, it's a matter of WILL you?


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