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Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by asodeboyede(m): 3:57pm On Jan 05, 2015
God the founder of marriage made it clear that couples are to increase and multiply; and this is fundamentally connected to sex! Asides this, sexual contact in marriage is a form of renewing your commitment and fuelling the fire of passion!

Once Sex dies out in a home, the fire is already gone, because sex is like a binding force! Any position to do away with sex( except for some periods) is inhumane and ungodly!
" Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with
consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to
fasting and prayer; and come together again, that
Satan tempt you not for your incontinency."
Inhumane in the actual fact that you are not making your spouse to explore the full scale of happiness and ecstasy as human!
Sex could only stop in marriage at the death of a partner or any inability that crawls in by virtue of incident or accident!
So ungodly that the bible even warns against sexual deprivation in marriage! There are couples out there that the strength of their homes lies in this sacred act!
Sex was even likened to water, as water is essential to life, so also sex is essential in marriage " Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running
waters out of thine own well" Proverbs 5:15!
So don't stop doing it and don't move against it!
No Couple On Earth Can/should Outgrow This Act, except they don't longer feel any spark of love for each other!

" As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so
is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his
shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to
my taste." Song of Solomon 2:3
You only lose taste and appetite for the food you've lost interest and passion for!
Sex is a form of marital food, it makes your home healthy!
Lastly, a good couple must share the same bed! No division in bed! Divided taste, divided pocket, divided attire, divided room, divided tongue, divided vision, divided plate, divided parenting et al this are what leads to di-voice(divorce) in marriage!
Shalom!
May God bless Your Home!

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Re: Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by Sweetmarriage: 11:15am On Jan 07, 2015
asodeboyede:
God the founder of marriage made it clear that couples are to increase and multiply; and this is fundamentally connected to sex! Asides this, sexual contact in marriage is a form of renewing your commitment and fuelling the fire of passion!

Once Sex dies out in a home, the fire is already gone, because sex is like a binding force! Any position to do away with sex( except for some periods) is inhumane and ungodly!
" Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with
consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to
fasting and prayer; and come together again, that
Satan tempt you not for your incontinency."
Inhumane in the actual fact that you are not making your spouse to explore the full scale of happiness and ecstasy as human!
Sex could only stop in marriage at the death of a partner or any inability that crawls in by virtue of incident or accident!
So ungodly that the bible even warns against sexual deprivation in marriage! There are couples out there that the strength of their homes lies in this sacred act!
Sex was even likened to water, as water is essential to life, so also sex is essential in marriage " Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running
waters out of thine own well" Proverbs 5:15!
So don't stop doing it and don't move against it!
No Couple On Earth Can/should Outgrow This Act, except they don't longer feel any spark of love for each other!

" As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so
is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his
shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to
my taste." Song of Solomon 2:3
You only lose taste and appetite for the food you've lost interest and passion for!
Sex is a form of marital food, it makes your home healthy!
Lastly, a good couple must share the same bed! No division in bed! Divided taste, divided pocket, divided attire, divided room, divided tongue, divided vision, divided plate, divided parenting et al this are what leads to di-voice(divorce) in marriage!
Shalom!
May God bless Your Home!

Can i post this on my site? What's your full name so i can reference you as the writer.
Re: Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by pgidex(f): 11:20am On Jan 07, 2015
True talk
Re: Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by 5minsmadness: 11:33am On Jan 07, 2015
Yes it is inhumane and ungodly to deprive your partner of sex in.marriage.

Inhumane: One of your partner's reasons of getting married to you was the physical attraction he/she felt. Imagine staying in the same house with the person you are sexually attracted to, sometimes they will even go about nude in your presence making your feelings rise , only to be rebuffed anytime you ask for sex. It can reduce the deprived person's self esteem, confidence and even love for the depriver. It is like mental torture.

Sex is a powerful force wether we want to admit it or not. It essentially rules the world now as we see it. It os like eating, drinking, laughing , etc. Depriving someone you are supposed to love of sexual satisfaction is wicked and selfish.


Ungodly: The bible says something about you and your partner becoming one when you are married. The husband's body from henceforth belongs to the wife and the wife's body belongs to the husband. That means you give your body as a gift to your spouse when you get married. It is no longer 'your body, your choice' as some new age thinking would have us believe.

Sex is spiritual as well as physical. It is the spiritual nurturing blend of two souls intertwined together. Depriving your spouse of such a sweet union will open doors to temptation from outside sources. Doors to pornography, prostitution, adultery, diseases, distrust, dislike, hatred, vengeance, murder, divorce etc can all be opened from depriving your spouse of sex.


When you get married, remember that it is not only your needs that are to be met, but your partner's as well.
Re: Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by asodeboyede(m): 5:26pm On Jan 07, 2015
Sweetmarriage:


Can i post this on my site? What's your full name so i can reference you as the writer.
No problem! Use my moniker(Asodeboyede)!
Cheers!
Re: Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by oakson: 6:05pm On Jan 07, 2015
asodeboyede:
God the founder of marriage made it clear that couples are to increase and multiply; and this is fundamentally connected to sex! Asides this, sexual contact in marriage is a form of renewing your commitment and fuelling the fire of passion!

Once Sex dies out in a home, the fire is already gone, because sex is like a binding force! Any position to do away with sex( except for some periods) is inhumane and ungodly!
" Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with
consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to
fasting and prayer; and come together again, that
Satan tempt you not for your incontinency."
Inhumane in the actual fact that you are not making your spouse to explore the full scale of happiness and ecstasy as human!
Sex could only stop in marriage at the death of a partner or any inability that crawls in by virtue of incident or accident!
So ungodly that the bible even warns against sexual deprivation in marriage! There are couples out there that the strength of their homes lies in this sacred act!
Sex was even likened to water, as water is essential to life, so also sex is essential in marriage " Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running
waters out of thine own well" Proverbs 5:15!
So don't stop doing it and don't move against it!
No Couple On Earth Can/should Outgrow This Act, except they don't longer feel any spark of love for each other!

" As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so
is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his
shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to
my taste." Song of Solomon 2:3
You only lose taste and appetite for the food you've lost interest and passion for!
Sex is a form of marital food, it makes your home healthy!
Lastly, a good couple must share the same bed! No division in bed! Divided taste, divided pocket, divided attire, divided room, divided tongue, divided vision, divided plate, divided parenting et al this are what leads to di-voice(divorce) in marriage!
Shalom!
May God bless Your Home!
Very true... I love this!
Re: Opinion: It Is Inhumane And Ungodly To Deprive Your Partner Of Sex In Marriage by LordReed(m): 8:55am On Jan 08, 2015
While there are valid reasons why a couple can decide not to have sex withholding sex for unreasonable excuses is "criminal".

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