hello guys I really need your help on this.there is this lady ve known for some years now due to the fact that she was my classmate in my secondary school days.now we are currently serving am serving in abia while she at sokoto.she called me and told me bluntly how she feels about me and how madly in love she with me,
I really appreciated her and she coming out clean to tell me but I can't love I don't think I can fall in love becos I don't understand how to fall in love am just a normal guy who loves writing and thinking.maybe nobody understand by defination of love.whenever I try to fall in love in fall in lust..she a lady I respect so much and I don't want to disappoint her.pls how do I go about it.....I know how to deal with other cases but she? she z just too different a good friend is better than a nice wife. mod can u pls help me move it to romance section I made a mistake

My advice: give love a chance

Udehpaschal1:
My advice: give love a chance

....still trying sir

dstnd:
....still trying sir

u need to try harder. If u have atleast d slightest of feeling for her, u can build on that