NLs
just married men, would you kindly share some of ur experiences with those of us coming just right behind you on the more masculine things of putting together a family
to be more precise, some of the suff could be about

how long it took you to get married from say, the time you finished college or university, how you broke away from being under your parents,
some of the factors involved; finances, level of education, what and what determined choice of spouse, accomodation for you and your spouse and any other thing that you think might be useful
waiting for your posts
thanks,