The word 'am sorry' is over used. It is good we've been socialized to be respectful and courteous but we've to apologize or the right reasons.

There are plenty of times when you'll have to apologize in life, but is there a time when you shouldn't say you're sorry? Yes! You just have to recognize when to throw out a mea culpa and when a frank discussion with your friend is required instead.

Here is how saying sorry can ruin you.



*.To the world you are weak. Nobody wants to hire or work with a weak person.

*.The world doesn’t take what you have to say seriously because you are constantly breaking your word and then saying sorry..

*.You yourself don’t take yourself seriously because all the times you’ve let yourself off from owning up.

*.You aren’t as liked. Why? Because the world doesn’t treat people who arene’t responsible enough to take care of their shit so they don’t have to say sorry anymore as good as people who are on top of their shit.

*.You accomplish less and then blame the world for why your life sucks.

As as how naa?

Nawaoooo, one time they tell us to always say sorry even when we are right, another time again someone is saying that we should stop saying it. I don dey confuse o.

op, Do you know the word "STOP" can save you from many unnecessary discussions?...

Too Much Of Everything Is Bad.

It all boils down to saying the right words at the right time .

okonja:
op, Do you know the word "STOP" can save you from many unnecessary discussions?...

As as how abeg?

wordsbase:
As as how naa?

It is self explanatory abeg!

MegMich:

It is self explanatory abeg!

First off, by "sorry ruining my life" you mean i should actuay stop saying sorry whatever the situation or circumstance.

Now addressing your points.

* Sorry doesn't make you weak.. When you are sorry about your mistakes and are vocal about it, it shows responsibility. Saying sorry doesn't necessarily mean kowtowing before whoever it is you are apologising to.

* Why should you constantly break your word?

* Responsible people take themselves seriously.

* i think ihave explained your fourth point away.

* how does saysaying sorry amount to accompliaccomplishing less? I don't see the logic.

MegMich:

It is self explanatory abeg!

First off, by "sorry ruining my life" you mean i should actuay stop saying sorry whatever the situation or circumstance.

Now addressing your points.

* Sorry doesn't make you weak.. When you are sorry about your mistakes and are vocal about it, it shows responsibility. Saying sorry doesn't necessarily mean kowtowing before whoever it is you are apologising to.

* Why should you constantly break your word?

* Responsible people take themselves seriously.

* i think ihave explained your fourth point away.

* how does saysaying sorry amount to accomplishing less? I don't see the logic.

MegMich:


As as how abeg?

Anyhow you see it

Instead of sorry all the time just do the right thing.