How can I be dating a girl who is older than me and be crushing on a girl older than me too(the girl am dating is 22 while the girl am crushing is 21 and am 20) the worst is that am a christian and the are both Muslim. Am really confuse, I need advice on what to do pls.

Young man, If I were you I will spend more time developing myself, get a good degree, do petty business and grow up some more before seeking a girlfriend. You have better prospect of meeting and marrying the girl of your dreams later. At your age you are not likely to understand the many troubles that comes with maintaining a girl. It is cool to be a male virgin at 19,while that is so make friends with good girls around you(no sex yet) and watch life take you higher. There are usually no serious minded ladies younger than you yet, I also wish you take your contacts off this thread so you don't get scammed. Advise from an elder brother. I had this experience when I was your age and got this same advise from someone I don't know.

kelvine:
Young man, If I were you I will spend more time developing myself, get a good degree, do petty business and grow up some more before seeking a girlfriend. You have better prospect of meeting and marrying the girl of your dreams later. At your age you are not likely to understand the many troubles that comes with maintaining a girl. It is cool to be a male virgin at 19,while that is so make friends with good girls around you(no sex yet) and watch life take you higher. There are usually no serious minded ladies younger than you yet, I also wish you take your contacts off this thread so you don't get scammed. Advise from an elder brother. I had this experience when I was your age and got this same advise from someone I don't know.

This is nothing but the TRUTH.

kelvine:
Young man, If I were you I will spend more time developing myself, get a good degree, do petty business and grow up some more before seeking a girlfriend. You have better prospect of meeting and marrying the girl of your dreams later. At your age you are not likely to understand the many troubles that comes with maintaining a girl. It is cool to be a male virgin at 19,while that is so make friends with good girls around you(no sex yet) and watch life take you higher. There are usually no serious minded ladies younger than you yet, I also wish you take your contacts off this thread so you don't get scammed. Advise from an elder brother. I had this experience when I was your age and got this same advise from someone I don't know.

Dis is a priceless advise...op

True talk...