I have
met a lot of young girls that told me confidently that they prefer
having guys as friends to having their fellow females as friends. I
tried to find out from them why they seem to prefer guys but they never
come out straight. Some will just say, “Women have a lot of personality
issues”, but I don’t just get what they mean by “personality issues”.

In the kind of society we find ourselves, seeing a boy and a girl always
or closely is interpreted in many ways by people who don’t even know
you.




The truth is that the jealousy of a woman towards another can be deadly.
Most of the issues that women have stem from discrepancies in physical
looks. A natural young girl dislikes the idea that her peer is more
beautiful than she is. A girl is easily intimidated by the looks of her
peers. Just tell a girl that she is more beautiful than all her friends,
and then you have doubled her happiness and pride.


This reminds of two friends that had a quarrel that led them to fight.
During their fight, one of the girls focus was her friends face. All she
was doing was to use her long nails to injure her friend’s pretty face.
At the end of the scuffle, she felt ‘better’ seeing the injury she had
done to her friend’s face.


Another girl told me that girls hardly keep secrets among themselves.
Another one said that girl friends are boring. Another said that girls
are deceitful and so on!


Well, I know not all girls will prefer males as close pals but I’d love
to hear more from those who choose guys and the ‘good reasons’ why they
prefer males.