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Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nten: 8:35pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Tearg1: i didnt only judge i gave my verdict. Are you aware your ex was trying to tempt you and you still fell for it. As a preacher your spirituality isnt suppose to be in doubt. Quite well she met u delivering at a seminar maybe as a changed man and a married man, so she decided to check out personally whether you are the guy she use to know. Think bro... Think |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Akinz0126(m): 8:35pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Tearg1:Is that so?was it God that instructed him to kiss the other lady's judge bush?If truly he's a true man of God then he already defiled himself and he should be ready for the consequences of his action. |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Sharksblow(m): 8:36pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
all these OPs sef. How many rounds did u do? if it's just one round, it's not cheating. Continue bleeping her And do a summative apology. BTW, u didn't tell us your name And ur wife's. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by ideology(m): 8:37pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
@Gunnerman Hmmmm, nice comments from nlders IF THE STORY IS TRUE #My opinion. you offended your God, your wife and Yourself. so Leave pastor out of it. Talk to your God, surely he will forgive you. Talk to yourself, forgiving oneself is not easy but Try … Talk to your wife, well this sounds odd, if you were single, I'll say keep it to yourself. What happens if she finds out?? its better she knows the truth from you rather than hearing from outside. Also telling her the truth will help you forgive yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 8:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Akinz0126: us Humans are quick to condemn, well since you believe you are better than him, why not cast the first stone?? |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Dragonking: 8:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
fairygeh: Don't mind the guy..he is a serial cheat using born again to cover up his nefarious actions..how can a so called born again proclaim healing by kissing a woman's punny? this is one reason I avoid the so called born again people, many of them are like Satan if not worse. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Eluwilussit(m): 8:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
kilokeys: Thanks. All them hypocrites. He can tell all he wants but he shouldn't bring up some sacred words in vain. Healing my foot. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 8:44pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Nten: Not every pastor is that strong spiritually... Shouldnt we help him back on his feet than cast a stone on him because we are the perfect ones, right?? |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
To God - Cos you wronged him To your wife - cos u sinned against her. Anything short of these two is incomplete. And take steps to show it neva happend again 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by osenidvdg(m): 8:45pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Why confessing to pastor or his wife? Can any one of them forgive and save?. Do you know if their own even worst than her own ?she should Please confess to God if she is ready to forsake it. let only God reveal secret to pastor not Man as they may use it against her one day. Don't trust any flesh |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by teemy(m): 8:45pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
you would still need to speak things out with your wife just that mode of explaining should be gentle due to her health. in times of unexpected passion protection is mostly forgotten. how else would you explain to your wife till you are certified ok. |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 8:46pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
osenidvdg: THANK YOU MENNN!!!!!...... |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Dragonking: 8:50pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
osenidvdg: When ur wife cheats on u, I hope u won't be vexed when u find out from somewhere else? at least she confessed to God right? 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by ayusco85(m): 8:57pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
chillingbabe: U can say that again |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by tmerry2(f): 8:59pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
U dnt confess to man cos man doesn't have d power to take away ur sins,what wld u gain frm telling ur pastor,the only person that deserve to knw aside frm God is ur wife cos u broke the trust,expect u are a catholic then u are free to confess to ur rev father |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
U dnt ve to confes to anyone. Jt kneel down nd confess ur sins to God nd you will be forgiven. Bt u must nt allow satan to use you nd insult GOD next time. I don't stl belv in this story but just contributing******** |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Mintayo(m): 9:13pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
kiss of life? kiss of death? kiss of betrayal? |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nten: 9:15pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Tearg1: which stone did i cast? I have help him back to his feet by advising him to apologise & confess to no any other person than God and cut contact with ex |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Minet16:ahan...dem dey pay for F.P post ni? |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by osenidvdg(m): 9:19pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Please pray for forgiveness and totally forsake it. Don't ever discuss it with your wife or anybody(except any instruction from holy spirit to do so and don't over do it just do exactly as information get to you) but ask God to forgive you. pray with sincerity and ask God to help you revive your marriage and keep you away from consequences awaiting for you. Do you know that your wife has her own blame? Because she ought to have received such information from holy spirit or she ignore it after receiving it. (if both of you are at the side of God). See,anything happen to husband/wife after marriage for good or bad,physically or spiritually must be blame on other party,so she does not have any excuse even she get to kno after some time. The issue is a spiritual matter that may be handle as a weakness and lack of discipline. This should serve as a lesson for Christian couples to always pray for each other than shifting blame. You have become 1 not 2 but those see themselves as 2 can keep such un biblical act on. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by fairygeh(f): 9:19pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Dragonking:Honestly,i so much dislike hypocrites like him,if u are bad,lets know you are bad.nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Prospero01(m): 9:28pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
This is Super Story. Well fabricated story. Nice one 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Akinz0126(m): 9:32pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Tearg1:we are no more living in the time of law but rather in the time of grace.But seriosly he have to dialogue with God and since God is merciful and nobody is above temptation he'll surely overcome it 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by ozedb(m): 9:33pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Wen u both were undressing each other, u 4got ur wife now u don,t no whom to confess to, sorry for ur self u cheater did u not enjoyed it kiss and pronounce healing, have u pronounce healing on ur wife heart problem, as for me I think ur wife don,t have any problem of heart confess to her and ur paster. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 9:33pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Akinz0126: sure |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Ojoariyo(m): 9:36pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
It is difficult to resist your ex especially wen she is this hot type, but fair is fair, you still need to tell your wife to save yourself from guilt, If you are sure that you are not going to do t again...... 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by lonelydora: 9:46pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
dayjee:take one bottle for my head. |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by stepo707: 9:52pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Adultery is a very serious sin.1cor3:16-17,1cor6:18-20 For you to get proper forgiveness you need to do the following Recognise Feel Godly sorrow(which is what you feeling cos you want to repent even without your wife knowing you cheated) Make a resolve to stop.never to do again.Also called abandonment.You need to cut off ALL communication with ex and any other person you might have soft spot for. Confession to people you offended.so you confess to God,your wife and even your ex.you need to let her know what you did with her was wrong.Be humble and meek when talking with your wife, it will hurt her but with timeyou will gain her trust back and then she will forgive you and then God will forgive you too. Forsaking the sin Restitution Acknowledging the saviour jesus christ. I hope this helps |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Shirley07: 10:01pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
There's something called 'restitution' in the bible. By the way, you didn't offend your pastor, you offended God and your wife, so confess to them. That's what restitution is all about. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Cpumping(m): 10:03pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Let me tell u how dis story wd end. Ur ex will call u in a few weeks time n tell u she is preggss. Just be watching. |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Tearg1: 10:05pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
stepo707: HAVE YOU DONE ALL THESE BEFORE? MR PROPHET!!!!! |
Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by 1miccza: 10:09pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Bunsky: That's called miracle kissing 2 Likes |
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