We live in a society where common among ladies are wonderfully sketched make ups, beautifully painted faces, updated fashions and trends. All of those are good but what baffles me is the illusion that comes with it in the minds of these ladies.

Illusion 1... that they are not beautiful without make ups. but is it your make up that actually defines your beauty or your character and the quality of the content of your heart?

Illusion 2... that if they don't do all those they won't be invoke or accepted in the society. any person who does not accept the real you without all the make overs and fashion, will that person truly appreciate you? Does he or she worth having you around?

Illusion 3... that they will not be attracted to men. Responsible men these days stay attracted to moderate looking girls and not the ones with wired makes overs
Annoyingly, you need to know what some of these girl do or go through just to stay on point. Isn't that funny?

The illusion counts on and you can add yours.

Conclusively, i believe a pretty lady needs no excessive make over to feel or look beautiful. If you are beautiful, you are beautiful and nobody can contend with that. If you feel less pretty and inferior, i suggest you work on your self esteem and boost your self worth.

What is your stand on this? Please no names calling, make this thread free and conducive for learning.

A little bit of both...

[quote author=Shezhawt post=31745506]A little bit of both...

thanks dear, why do you think it should be in little? how are you today?

self esteem and a great deal of it.

but babe e no easy o, everything is wacked up, most of those responsible men you typed about still admire and go for the made up babes. it all has to do with mindset and the only people that can change it are people with self esteem and natural beauty. and it can start from you and me.

We need positive self esteem.and then men should learn to go for contents and not containers.i'm not saying a lady shld not dress n carry herself like a lady either.self esteem just makes you know make up is not all in all

K9blunt:
self esteem and a great deal of it.

but babe e no easy o, everything is wacked up, most of those responsible men you typed about still admire and go for the made up babes. it all has to do with mindset and the only people that can change it are people with self esteem and natural beauty. and it can start from you and me.

Great girl. you are so so right. Our mind set... how you think of yourself on the inside determines greatly how people see you, handle you and appreciate you... which boils down to you self esteem.
You also know that what works for some girls don't work for others, so people must also know what works for them. how are you today? You done chop?

Both Baby, Both.
Without confidence, you'll still look like an troll on make up.

SmartFaces:

Great girl. you are so so right. Our mind set... how you think of yourself on the inside determines greatly how people see you, handle you and appreciate you... which boils down to you self esteem.
You also know that what works for some girls don't work for others, so people must also know what works for them. how are you today? You done chop?

thanks Jane not yet o, I don't taya for nija routine foods o. you nko?

Vivly:
Both Baby, Both.
Without confidence, you'll still look like an troll on make up.

Ma girls are talking! you know, i did not know there girls with positive thinking. that's nice to know.
your confidence will speak for you this week and always. Nice day.

pearlyn:
We need positive self esteem.and then men should learn to go for contents and not containers.i'm not saying a lady shld not dress n carry herself like a lady either.self esteem just makes you know make up is not all in all

Thanks dearie.