This is a very interesting story that that highlights the moral decay of Africa which starts in the family. Yet no one is willing to recognize the demons that are passed down through generations. Nor many can see the wisdom how this can be changed by improving the lives of women/mothers.
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/03/i-was-hypnotized-says-lady-who-killed-lover-over-n200/#sthash.VIX2MakZ.zOx8dOfI.dpuf


This is such an example of wide spread immorality and lack of tradition in society. Not saying that the lady doesn't deserve punishment but she does deserve mercy as her crime was not premeditated. Its not like she planned his death in advance, it was a violent emotional reaction, which is right as she says it was something took over her, probably due to demons affecting her family's karma. Something drastically has affected her and her family as she was homeless and starving when the victim meet her and rescued her. Mercy is true justice in cases such as this. For judgment without mercy is the same thing as mercy without judgment it isn't judgment at all.


Another lesson men shouldn't be beating upon women as this is just as violently wicked. Continued physical and psychological abuse of women breeds a more destructive society. When I arrive in Africa I will promote eradicating this demonic culture of mistreating and keeping women oppressed as I do now. Just think this poor human being was homeless, she had a mother or father, where are they? It is hard to lose one's father but to lose one's mother is a merciless fate. This lady loss both and had no where to go. A much harder trial for a woman than a man. No one loves and cares for you like your mother. Mothers will eagerly wipe your poo poo and make you fresh again while fathers will duck the responsibility. Women will care for the elderly and wipe their poo poo when they become unable to do so.

Ayaba Obba was a faithful and loyal wife to Alaafin Sango she caught off her ear out of the pure love she felt for Sango and put it in his soup thinking it would strengthen his love for her. Sango discovered the ear, then began abusing her and ran her out of the house trying to kill her for his anger. Obba diminished in shame and hurt and turned into tears and become a river. Obba was Sango's first wife, she was the daughter a well respected man, she was well raised and well taught. Obba was born to be a Queen (Ayaba). Ayaba Obba brought esteem to Sango's kingdom. And at his side she was faithful, loyal and helpful in his administration, she taught his 3rd wife Ayaba Oya how to fight so that Sango would return safely from his battles defending Oyo. Obba was not a beauty queen as Ayaba Oshun but she was a good looking woman despite. Pretty much like First Lady Michelle Obama isn't as beautiful as Iman who once said that Michelle Obama is no great beauty but has other enduring qualities. And Iman was correct, Michelle Obama is a highly educated woman, a dual major, a loving wife and extraordinary mother, she speaks well at public appearances for social causes that affect women and children, she stands by her husband's side and defends him when he is attacked, she has never been accused of an adulterous affair. Michelle Obama is a Queen mother in many parts of African tradition. Like Ayaba Obba she is the type of woman who's family background of a hardworking father and good parentage you would want to make your first wife and Queen. Yet sometimes Michelle Obama is attacked, called an ape or man looking by people who love to degrade women including other foolish self hating women. Just because a woman isn't a beauty queen doesn't give anyone the right to degrade her. To look upon women purely as sex creatures and that's their primary value and function is flat out wicked. This mishap undermines the true divine purpose of women as the first teachers and institutors of culture and civilization in the kingdom. We need to return to respecting the Orisha Ayaba Obba who is the ultimate example of an Queen mother. Let's not forget Ayaba Moremi who once saved the Holy City of Ile Ife, by sacrificing her dignity to protect her people and her King, men are not always the heroes who save the day.

Speaking of great Queen Mothers look at Buganda's Queen Mother Sylvia Nagginda (born 9 November 1964) is the current Nnabagereka or Queen of Buganda, a historic kingdom in modern day Uganda, the third-largest economy in the East African Community.Nagginda was born in England in 1964 to John Mulumba Luswata of Nkumba, Entebbe and Rebecca Nakintu Musoke[1] and returned to Uganda shortly thereafter to be raised by her grandparents of the Omusu Clan. She is the granddaughter of George William Musoke and Nora Musoke of Nnazigo, Kyaggwe, and Omutaka Nelson Nkalubo Sebugwawo and Catherine Sebugwawo of Nkumba.

Queen Mother Sylvia Naggainda has enormous education in her background like Michelle Obama. She isn't no beauty queen but when I first saw her I thought how blessed the Kabaka is to have such a good looking, highly moral and extremely intelligent lady for his wife, Queen Mother Sylvia Naggainda is a perfect woman and the ideal lady to be chosen for a first wife and Queen Mother. As Queen, Sylvia has worked to raise awareness of the value of educating girls. She endorses abstinence from premarital sex to avoid HIV/AIDS and has tried to reduce the stigma of those living with the disease. The Queen is the patron of various organizations and heads the Nnaabagereka Development Trust Foundation. She has also spearheaded immunization campaigns against measles, polio, tetanus, and other diseases. She also established the Kampala Ballet and Modern Dance School, the first of its kind in Uganda.

The Queen Mother Naggainda advocates raising up a better and stronger generation of women to brighten the future of Africa. How wise it is for Boko Horam to keep their daughters ignorant? Do any of us know how gifted we would be if our mothers were scientists? We can not raise Africa to her former glory if we continue the practice of lowering women beneath our hands and feet, beating on them, raping them, killing them, abusing them and keeping them beneath their destinies because we as men and/or women see it fit to keep this imbalanced system of wicked justice, out the desire to preserve the status quo. The status quo is what is destroying Africa. And the status quo is not the standard our great ancestors practiced when they exalted women to their proper status of Queen Mothers like was done in Ancient Kemet. Women represent 3/4ths of the society because women birth and raise children in the society. Count it out, Women, girls, boys and men, each representing a fourth/1/4th. Women represent not only themselves but the children which accounts for 3/4ths of the society and men are only 1/4th. A nation can not rise any higher than its women. And a continent can't rise either if we continue the overbearing culture of patriarchy. I love the fathers and the Elders and respect their wisdom, pray for them each and every morning that they continue to lead and guide with great wisdom. But we must equal out the scales and promote the rise of women in society or we may never defeat the ill affects of barbaric White Supremacy upon our African world.

Love,

Sango.

This is the Queen Mother Sylvia Naggainda's web page: http://www.buganda.com/nnaabagereka.htm

This is the Queen Mother Sylvia Naggainda's website where she runs a campaign for donations to help her continental wide cause to raise up women thus raising up Africa: http://nnabagereka.org/