The most important issue, however, is this: Are you honestly
seeking God's will for your marriage? God loves you and knows
what is best for you, both now and in the future. Elsewhere in
your letter you acknowledge that your boyfriend has no interest in
God or church - and to be frank, that's a major reason for his
problems.
Face honestly your own need for Christ, and put your life and
your future into His hands. Then urge your friend to do so also.
God doesn't want you to spend your life being put down, nor does
He want your spouse to be ruled by pride and selfishness. And it
won't be like this if Christ is at the center of your marriage.