So,

I was in a relationship for 7 years - there about. Prior to this, I used to by really positive, optimistic and most of all - quite prayerful I must say. Was so used to praying etc.
I believe the girl - who I married (but that didn't work out - another story entirely) - has in some way made me slightly less positive, optimistic and finally less prayerful. In fact, these days, I almost see prayer as a chore. I occasionally fall asleep or wander of in thought during prayer - like go off track then finally regain 'consciousness'.

Why am I writing all this on here?? I need help getting back to that spiritual state I used to be in. The state I was able to achieve thanks to my time in Nigeria - my boarding school years etc.

Tried going to different church, but it ain't really helping.

Any tips guys?

Cheers. Await all response.