hello,

There is a girl whom I want to take as a second wife.One day my wife saw my conversation with the girl on whatsapp when I went out and left the phone in the living room unlocked.

Mehn! My wife just called the lady and blasted her even threatining her, with things like: she will realise her mistake, she will never see person who will marry her in life and lots more.

My fiancee called me and narrated it to me telling me that she can no longer tolerate this that it is better to call off the relationship. I calmed her that she shouldnt be bothered if she really loves me. she should stand by my side and realise our dream of getting married.

Please your matured candid advice is needed on how to handle this because two head is better than one.

I understand how she feels..why take a 2nd wife.. can u ever b just in d way u treat dem both? If you were in her shoes will you be happy about it?..nd don't quote d quran for me..d holy prophets case had situations surrounding it..is ur wife not living up to expectation..Am a muslim oo.. don't get it all wrong..i just feel it's unnecessary and we put ourselves into problem..my thought though! :A short prayer: Oh Allah make me contented with just one wife and with no reason do I wish to v a 2nd..in sha Allah! Amin!

espn:
I understand how she feels..why take a 2nd wife.. can u ever b just in d way u treat dem both? If you were in her shoes will you be happy about it?..nd don't quote d quran for me..d holy prophets case had situations surrounding it..is ur wife not living up to expectation..Am a muslim oo.. don't get it all wrong..i just feel it's unnecessary and we put ourselves into problem..my thought though! :A short prayer: Oh Allah make me contented with just one wife and with no reason do I wish to v a 2nd..in sha Allah! Amin!

same with me. . I don't like the issue of a second wife as it breads problems...... I av Vowed to take one wife only