Before marriage, you and your spouse seem to have so much in common but now disillusion seem to be driven a wedges between you and your mate. Making you and your mate like cell mate instead of soul mate.

The question is can you improve on your relationship? Before that, let’s consider why you must be disillusion.


WHY IT HAPPENS

Reality. Raising children, working, dealing with in laws, those daily routine can chips away our marriage bliss. Family member who suffer from chronic illness and financial setback can strain our marriage.

Differences. Areas such as communication style, money management, and problem solving, after marriage a man and woman will come to discover such unlike due to overlooking their differences during when they were dating. Mostly difference that was annoyance tends to be intolerable.

Emotional Distance. Forming emotional attachment with someone else can occur when buildup of unkind words, actions and backing of unresolved conflicts arises; this can cause a husband or a wife to withdraw into emotional shield.

Unexpectation. The motions of you have you have found the one person you are meant to be in marriage is romantic, but it is a setup for disaster. The myth of a perfect mate do shattered mostly when problem arises, and that leave the spouse to the feelings that they have made a mistake.


WHAT CAN YOU DO

Focus on your mate good quality. You can make list of three good quality in which your mate processes. You can keep the list in a small box, wedding picture or even to a mobile device. Always regularly refer to the list of why you married your spouse. Focusing on those quality of your mate can bring peace

Having Special Time Together. Dating is something new and exciting when you and your mate set out time to spend together before getting married. So why not do something similar now. Making special plan as to where and when you and your spouse could spend time together just how it was when you were dating with your spouse before married.

Expressing Your Feelings. Its unfair resorting to silent treatment when you are hurt by your spouse words of actions, why not see if you can overlook the matter. You can calmly talk out with your spouse as soon as possible.

Knowing The Difference Between Your Feelings And Your Spouse Intention. It is abnormal to have the intention of hurting others. For any hurt feelings you may have cause, you can sincerely give an apologies. You can try discussing things in which you and your spouse can do in other to avoid hurt feelings. Why not try becoming kind to one another, tenderly compassionate, and freely forgive one another.

Be Real In Your Expectations. Tribulations do come into marriage. But the question is, when tribulation arises, do conclude that your marriage was a mistake. But you can always work with your mate top resolve differences and putting up with one another and freely forgive one another.

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