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Dear Graduate, Here's What You Were Never Told by nairation: 10:05am On May 16, 2015
Dear Graduate,

This is a big milestone moment. I hope you’re proud of all you accomplished. You did good, kid.
Graduation brings up a bag of mixed emotions -- the same way that moving away from home, or getting married or having a child does. You’re proud and excited, but you’re also thinking, What on earth did I get myself into? You may even feel like an animal that has wandered onto the highway. You see your future rushing toward you, but you’re paralyzed. You know you have to pick a direction and move, but all you can think is, S---, now what?

Now what, indeed. You’re supposed to know what’s next, right?

You’re supposed to know what your dream job is and how to get it. You’re supposed to know exactly how to pay off all of that student debt. You’re supposed to have a clear vision for your future. After all, these are the days. You’re now supposed to know how to make your parents proud and make a pile of cash, having kicked ass and taken numbers along the way. Right?

Bulls---.

The truth is, you’re not supposed to know what the future looks like. Nobody does. Why didn’t anybody tell you this? Because life, post-graduation, is scary as hell, that’s why. And 10 and 20 years from now, it will be just as scary as it appears on graduation day.

That's right: All of us out here in the working world are scared, too. We’re just better at faking it. We’re mucking it out, trying to find our way as best we can. We have doubts and fears and questions. So many questions. Just like you.

Maybe this comes as a surprise to you. Well, the jig is up. The secret is out: Nobody knows what the hell they’re doing. We’re all just winging it.

Even the people who look like they have their s--- together don’t have their s---t together, at least not all of it.

Believe it or not, this is a good thing. It evens the playing field and changes the rules. If we’re all just winging it, we don’t need a flawless master plan. We don’t have to have it all figured out to take a shot.

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Re: Dear Graduate, Here's What You Were Never Told by Chiscomax(m): 10:19am On May 16, 2015
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Re: Dear Graduate, Here's What You Were Never Told by nairation: 2:53pm On May 16, 2015
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Re: Dear Graduate, Here's What You Were Never Told by nairation: 10:45am On May 18, 2015
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