pls,ur advice will be highly appreciated. Am a young mother of two children. My marriage have not been made official cos am d second wife of my husband though all d family members frm my side and his are aware.am troubled cos i still bear my father's name. How can i register my marriage cos my husband is legally married to his first wife?

Mrs. Infinity Dickson

Second wife in this century? The struggle to be Mrs somebody is real.

Don't bother replying if you are a muslim?

infinity75:
pls,ur advice will be highly appreciated. Am a young mother of two children. My marriage have not been made official cos am d second wife of my husband though all d family members frm my side and his are aware.am troubled cos i still bear my father's name. How can i register my marriage cos my husband is legally married to his first wife?

Wrong!!
You are married to his dickk,so you might want to change your surname to "Dickson".

You are very brave my dear

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Wrong!!
You are married to his dickk,so you might want to change your surname to "Dickson".[/quote
Am nt.actually its a long story.u hv nt comment on d post

[quote author=infinity75 post=34934116][/quote] All stories are long,summary makes it shorter..

fem29:

Fem, why the face?

babygirlfl:


Fem, why the face?

, hmm sounds like she is having an affair with a married man.

fem29:


, hmm sounds like she is having an affair with a married man.

My thoughts exactly.

fem29:

, hmm sounds like she is having an affair with a married man.

No,am nt

babygirlfl:


My thoughts exactly.

I dunno if she wants advice on how to usurp his wife. Na wa o. Each to their own

infinity75:

No,am nt

I don't want to judge but if you are with a man who is already married then you are having an affair with him. What kind of marriage did you guys do?

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I don't want to judge but if you are with a man who is already married then you are having an affair with him. What kind of marriage did you guys do?[/quote
He was nt married wen we re dating.he got married during d relationshp which ii was nt aware of cos obviously he impregnated two ladies at a tym

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Wow sad. Sounds like a very messy situation. But you know you should have left him when you found out he had married someone else. How can his wife agree to a second wife. Dunno what to tell you.

Why una no fit give the the OP reasonable advice...haba...what's the biggy in being the second wife?....back to the topic..@OP.....may be you should talk to your husband on the issue...abi?...

The Op asked a question and nobody cares about the question but making stupid comments

@ Op don't answer any question regarding ur marital position

Just go to your local government council and you will be told exactly what to do

may I ask what happened to bring about your sudden interest in being legally registered as married?

mrsmith11:
The Op asked a question and nobody cares about the question but making stupid comments

@ Op don't answer any question regarding ur marital position

Just go to your local government council and you will be told exactly what to do

You make sense, but why local government coucil? I think she should sort it with the man, if I'm wrong pls correct me...For those spewing rubish 32 strroke on ur butt, ur time dey come

tpiadotcom:
So, because of inheritance you're suddenly remembering you're not the legal wife. . . . . . .. . .


Anyway, the man walked into this problem fully aware of what he was doing. . . . .. . . .

How does your response help her in registering her marriage

libertyfather:


You make sense, but why local government coucil? I think she should sort it with the man, if I'm wrong pls correct me...For those spewing rubish 32 strroke on ur butt, ur time dey come

Because LGA is where you do marriage registration so they will give all the information she need because the husband might not even know if is possible to obtain certificate for more than one wife

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libertyfather:


You make sense, but why local government coucil? I think she should sort it with the man, if I'm wrong pls correct me...For those spewing rubish 32 strroke on ur butt, ur time dey come

what do you mean?

just because you are in the lifestyle, everybody must follow join?

who send you, and are you sharing whatever lucre you are getting from such?

I hate when people shamelessly promote something.

if you have anything you want to share with the op, do that and stop threatening others, ok?

you are talking of time, when is your own?

Go to your local government Council to be informed. But I think you will be required to do court wedding. If you are married to the man traditionally then you are also is wife and have rights.

Ladies say no to being a 2nd wife. I consider been a single parent as a lesser evil.,

infinity75:
pls,ur advice will be highly appreciated. Am a young mother of two children. My marriage have not been made official cos am d second wife of my husband though all d family members frm my side and his are aware.am troubled cos i still bear my father's name. How can i register my marriage cos my husband is legally married to his first wife?

Since ur husband is legally married to d 1st wife,u can't register d marriage between both of u UNTIL he divorce d first wife in a court of law.

Op, the law recognises polygamy. Did he marry you traditionally? If yes, then you are legally married and the marriage can be registered. Go to the marriage Registry of your LG and get it done. Afterwards, You can do change of name with any newspaper of your choice. But If he only knows your family and hasn't done your trad , then i'm sorry you are not married.

Jamean:
Go to your local government Council to be informed. But I think you will be required to do court wedding. If you are married to the man traditionally then you are also is wife and have rights.

Ladies say no to being a 2nd wife. I consider been a single parent as a lesser evil.,

Single parent hoping from one dick to another?

You are human and as long you ladies want to pretend you don't love sex or whatever you would crave the touch of a man. What happens then?


You look for a young guy to tidy you or you engage in illicit sex with another married man? Isn't that fornication?


Which is better? To be known to one man with a home of yours even if it is shared (and common law of Nigeria even recognises this) or to be known with several men each taking turns ?

johnny1980:


Single parent hoping from one dick to another?

You are human and as long you ladies want to pretend you don't love sex or whatever you would crave the touch of a man. What happens then?


You look for a young guy to tidy you or you engage in illicit sex with another married man? Isn't that fornication?


Which is better? To be known to one man with a home of yours even if it is shared (and common law of Nigeria even recognises this) or to be known with several men each taking turns ?

What is this one saying

Jamean:

What is this one saying

And what did you type earlier?
Hear yourself. Single motherhood better than being in a marriage.

sorry! op your marriage can't be registered on any registrar. a man is only entitled to register only one wife with the court of law. since you're the second wife ,he can still do your trad, that one allows a man to register more than 10wives. Sorry for the mess already.

soonest:
Op, the law recognises polygamy. Did he marry you traditionally? If yes, then you are legally married and the marriage can be registered. Go to the marriage Registry of your LG and get it done. Afterwards, You can do change of name with any newspaper of your choice. But If he only knows your family and hasn't done your trad , then i'm sorry you are not married.

you can't register more than one wife in LG registry, it can only be done in a muslim court.