Hi y’all,

How are you guys, I haven’t been writing of late and I know some of you aren’t happy, I said some o. But it’s been hectic lately, shuttling a lot of things and a lot is going on right now but I’ll try to write anytime I get the opportunity. So just chilling at home and this came to my wondrous mind and I hope you guys get it.

So this topic came to my mind and I decided to ask you guys what your opinions are about it but first let me tell you guys my thoughts about. Now a lot of women/ ladies have asked this question, some have even gone as far as looking for it, while others don’t believe they exist. Let me officially ask the question. Is there such thing as the perfect gentleman?

First of all, let me clear the air, I think when women say they are looking for the perfect man, perfect here doesn’t means a man with a six zeros pay cheque, takes care of his ladies needs emotionally and otherwise, prayerful, loving, sweet, understanding and all that to some but it means that to others. It can also mean someone that appreciate s you for who you are at least that’s my thought. I have had arguments, discussions or talks with a lot of my friends and I know a lot of women believe the perfect gentleman should possess at least 90% of the qualities listed above. The truth of the matter Is that in as much we want our men to treat us like heaven, we should understand that they are human so can mess things up sometimes but that doesn’t mean you should settle for a fool or be in an abusive or unhealthy relationship in the name of love.

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