The Soothing Balm of Apologies

An 'apology' is a statement or an action showing remorse for an offense committed intentionally or not. It's an expression of regret, basically an admission of an error or acceptance of blame and a willingness to make amends for better relationship and understanding. It's a genuine desire to get above an offense and make peace not just with the aggrieved but also with self for a better functioning of the soul which is the seat of intellect.

Although apology is an integral part of human coexistence, it's also important to talk about 'Offense' being the reason for apologies. Offense (Friction) is one of the most common occurrence in human relationship. Giving our individual differences and uniqueness, there is likely to be a friction when people come together for a common course, and this in some cases leads to offense. Especially with groups were partners are unfamiliar with individual difference, sometimes even in matrimony.

Offense is toxic in nature and if allowed to permeate any relationship, has the ability to break down it walls and leaves it in total ruins, If urgent steps are not taking in form of genuine apologies to save such relationship. In a world of imperfection driven by personal desires offenses are inevitable even amongst family members. It leads to pains and bitterness which develops into sickness of mind and body (Psychosomatic) that brings all kind of chronic conditions in man.

Thankfully there is a renown antidote of this toxin 'Offense' and its simply genuine heartfelt 'Apology'. A sincere apology carries with it a soothing balm that is capable of melting any form of pain that was brought about by bitterness caused by offenses. It doesn't really matter who tenders the apology first but it sure does have a greater healing on the initiator than the recipient. This simply means you are more liberated from bitterness, chronic conditions when you pick the courage to apologize first, especially in cases when both parties feel aggrieved. So today rise above that offense and save that ailing relationship with the 'Soothing Balm of Apology' avoid health risk.

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Saying am sorry, please forgive me will melt d heart of a stone.