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Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by folabayo1(f): 10:28pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Ask a and it shalll be given....... Lol 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by youngice(m): 10:29pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
sultaan:Good reply |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by phransix147(m): 10:29pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Simple solution comeback home... 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by PHfinest(m): 10:30pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Dogoyaro 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Jarus(m): 10:30pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Almost every working person gets such demand, irrespective of where the person is. I get almost on daily basis. And i haev a feeling you flaunt your "wealth" on facebook....such attracts more demand. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by omooba969(m): 10:30pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
You too kill them with supplies ! 7 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by MichaelSokoto(m): 10:31pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:Chai! Walahi 1st time u made ya 1st sense in ya entire pathetic life! Kawai! 7 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by ochejoseph(m): 10:31pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
astrodome: Don't Mind that guy he is very Unreasonable! Check his TL and u will never respond to any of those rubbish again! 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by demmie1: 10:31pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
delishpot: broz o. put them in d middle( literaly). all u have to to is ignore them( friends and family inclusive) u dont have to be a good boy for anyone. trust me they dont appreciate it. they only see u as the another du.mb pot of soup. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by horlakunle25(m): 10:32pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:ah!! See wickedness!!! |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Expsbterror(m): 10:32pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Omo u must pay dues ooooo Chai Nigerians and their mentality that wance I go abroad, Obama issues u an open cheque for friends and relatives. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by olushy: 10:32pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Op Bleep u and Bleep off 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by McEwen(m): 10:32pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Kizyte(m): 10:33pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
astrodome:How were you allowed to live with four kids in the U.S? That's supposed to be irresponsible. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by entparrot(f): 10:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Just give them the money and stop complaining, or better come back to Nigeria and start begging people in America. In Nigeria corporate begging is a very lucrative business. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by MichaelSokoto(m): 10:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
astrodome:Add me! U won't even notice dat am there, trust me |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by ayusco85(m): 10:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS: you are just so daft and u have an empty skull. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by OsoDupe(f): 10:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Deactivate ur social accounts, change ur phone numbers and only give it out to close family member. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Bhella5(m): 10:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Do what u can to help. This is Africa, we take care of our own expecially family. Givers never lack they say. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by horlakunle25(m): 10:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Sunofgod:badooo...so u go later beg 4 money after all dis ur sermon?? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by NovusHomo(m): 10:35pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
astrodome: Help yourself. Cut them off. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Olofintoto(m): 10:36pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:bros u wicked o |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by histemple: 10:36pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
I understand your plight perfectly because I have been in same situation and I sought informed opinions on the way forward. Some of the things I learnt include but no limited to the following; "NO" is not a bad answer and those who don't use it are never successful. You can't satisfy everyone's need no matter how you try to. If you run into financial crises, 99.9 percent of the people you are helping will move on immediately and less than a percent will ever call you again. All of them will not die if you stop helping them today and you don't owe anyone an explanation on why you stopped. Having said all that, I must admit that it is not so easy to stop but remember that some evils are necessary. E.g. It is a necessary evil that some people must die for others to live. So, anyway you look at it, you must stop trying NOT TO offend all beggers. My advice is tell your very close relatives that you have some challenges and ask them to bear with you. Most of you in the US are very broke and survive mainly on credits, so don't allow them to add to your problems 24 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ojestas(m): 10:37pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Ask Emmanuel Adebayor. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by bebe2(f): 10:37pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Sunofgod(m): 10:37pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
horlakunle25: Na so dey rich dey become rich - - by saving their money and spending someone else's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Watch and learn) 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by hotgunz(m): 10:37pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
astrodome:we knw, we listen and view news too here in Nigeria |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by olawonder(m): 10:38pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Am surprised ppl here are not raining curses on u for this post; d last time a similar thread was posted, d OP ran away for ppl's abuse! You know why? because d ppl u are asking here for advice are the same friends, families and folks u were referring to... they too hv ppl abroad they are frustrating lives out of, for money! And they wouldn't like this sort of post that seems to pointing directly at them! 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Jarus: He must be a very lousy guy. This is common to all Nigerians living at home and abroad and people have been dealing with it for ages. You don't have to come here to flaunt what you have. Use your common sense. if you want to help, help otherwise deal with it yourself 1 Like |
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