Am rily confused ryt nw and don't no what to do. Am married wt 9 months old baby and am pregnant wt anoda baby nw. Am a graduate but no job yet and my hubby is not financially OK yet, though he's not complaining. Am stl recovery from my last childbirth as I lost a lot of blood through the process. Keeping ds baby, I mait not b able to apply for any job yet nd I nid to b personally financially OK myself cos I don't wnt to ask hubby for everything I nid, I don't wnt to rely on him for everything I nid. Hubby cheated bfr nd mait stl go back to his ways, cos according to him my cheek used to be chubby during pregnancy Makin me ugly. So many things attached to me not wanting to kip ds baby.

What happend to child spacing.... Men should learn to be wise for God's sake


My dear, no be ur fault say u carry belle oo...

Wow!

I don't know what to advice about the pregnancy, I can't ask you to abort as I don't know your stand on that.

But I just want you to know that, however you look during pregnancy, is not reason for your hubby cheating on you, don't ever accept that.

freecocoa:
Wow!

I don't know what to advice about the pregnancy, I can't ask you to abort as I don't know your stand on that.

But I just want you to know that, however you look during pregnancy, is not reason for your hubby cheating on you, don't ever accept that.

She said she doesn't want to keep the baby, and that only mean one thing.


Op, what exactly do you want? Because from what I deduce from your post , you don't wanna keep the baby. Everything circles around the pregnancy. So, are you indirectly asking how to terminate the pregnancy?

He's not financially stable and he's breeding kids?. Children comes with responsibility and any man who doesn't have the needed finances to take care of kids have no rights to birth them. That one is married doesn't necessarily mean they must have kids if there's no finance. You should be on contraceptives.

I won't advocate for a D&C, at least not for wedded couples but the decision is up to you both to preserve the pregnancy or not. But I think you should keep it as it's just the second baby.

Did I hear you say he cheated and boldly told you to your face why he did with such effontery?. And with such a flippant reason?. It'll be interesting to know how you reacted as your reaction will go a long way to determine if he'd cheat again.

Just do the best you can to keep fit and attractive even while you're pregnant. A lot of pregnant women still look great. Eat healthy.

I personally, will not be a parry to abortion...

When you say "not wanting to keep this baby" I think you mean an abortion. My dear sister, there's no justification for killing. U don't know what goodluck accompanies the coming of your Baby. Besides... You don't want to harm yourself permanently in the process.

Since u still recovering from your last childbirth, talk to your doctor about it, for recommended multivitamins, and folic acid. Take a lot of fruits and fresh green vegetables.

A healthy diet will also curb developing those ugly chubby cheeks

Being a woman, you have to put your home on top of the priority list. Cut your coat according to your size. Your job will be waiting for you, God's time is the best. Don't rush into getting a job, pregnancy, and keeping your man, all at the same time. You might end up loosing all. You can even talk to a counsellor about it.

Wish you safe delivery. Also stay sexy for your man

Wao, that is great. Take care of urself , eat very well and ensure ur family is happy. Children are gifts many families are doing the imaginable to have. Homes have been broken as a result of childlessness. Make sure u begin ante natal on time and in a gud hospital to avoid complications. Hope after this, u will talk with ur husband how to space ur other children if u intend to have more. Job is not the most important thing now. Who told u u can't get job any moment from now? U need to encourage ur husband to get thru this stage in ur marriage. It is though not unusual. Families pass thru things that are worst and yet come out strong.

crystalgem:
Hubby cheated bfr nd mait stl go back to his ways, cos according to him my cheek used to be chubby during pregnancy Makin me ugly.

Migbori
Claps hands
Orisirisi okunrin lowa laiye yi sha


Anyways
Children are blessings from God
This might even be triplets and before you even leave the hospital
The good Lord must have laid you the best
Don't feel sad for I know how it feels when there's finance issues
Keep trusting this preggy is for a reason and that reason will not be delayed a second short

ronald4lif:
He's not financially stable and he's breeding kids?. Children comes with responsibility and any man who doesn't have the needed finances to take care of kids have no rights to birth them. That one is married doesn't necessarily mean they must have kids if there's no finance. You should be on contraceptives.

I won't advocate for a D&C, at least not for wedded couples but the decision is up to you both to preserve the pregnancy or not. But I think you should keep it as it's just the second baby.

Did I hear you say he cheated and boldly told you to your face why he did with such effontery?. And with such a flippant reason?. It'll be interesting to know how you reacted as your reaction will go a long way to determine if he'd cheat again.

Just do the best you can to keep fit and attractive even while you're pregnant. A lot of pregnant women still look great. Eat healthy.

I found out myself, but stl didn't stop until I was ready to liv him. Bt stl nt sure he has repented as we r fasting. Fr nw al is cul

crystalgem:
Am rily confused ryt nw and don't no what to do. Am married wt 9 months old baby and am pregnant wt anoda baby nw. Am a graduate but no job yet and my hubby is not financially OK yet, though he's not complaining. Am stl recovery from my last childbirth as I lost a lot of blood through the process. Keeping ds baby, I mait not b able to apply for any job yet nd I nid to b personally financially OK myself cos I don't wnt to ask hubby for everything I nid, I don't wnt to rely on him for everything I nid. Hubby cheated bfr nd mait stl go back to his ways, cos according to him my cheek used to be chubby during pregnancy Makin me ugly. So many things attached to me not wanting to kip ds baby.

crystal gem? do u happen to watch Stephen universe?

kaorama:
Wao, that is great. Take care of urself , eat very well and ensure ur family is happy. Children are gifts many families are doing the imaginable to have. Homes have been broken as a result of childlessness. Make sure u begin ante natal on time and in a gud hospital to avoid complications. Hope after this, u will talk with ur husband how to space ur other children if u intend to have more. Job is not the most important thing now. Who told u u can't get job any moment from now? U need to encourage ur husband to get thru this stage in ur marriage. It is though not unusual. Families pass thru things that are worst and yet come out strong.

we wnt just two kids, if ds 2nd apens to b a boy.... Tnx

crystalgem:
I found out myself, but stl didn't stop until I was ready to liv him. Bt stl nt sure he has repented as we r fasting. Fr nw al is cul

This your shorthand makes it rather hard to grasp your point





. . . .just saying. . . .

crystalgem:
I found out myself, but stl didn't stop until I was ready to liv him. Bt stl nt sure he has repented as we r fasting. Fr nw al is cul

Okay but you shouldn't entertain or condone cheating no matter the reason cited. Although you have it as an obligation to stay fit and seductive, likewise him, so the sexual appeal doesn't rebate but the reason he cited for cheating was an utter nonsense. You must be very vocal and disciplining when displaying your dismay towards philandering and no reason whatsoever should be entertained.

Forget about a D&C and preserve the pregnancy and also forget about seeking employment for now until you've birthed the baby. Combining work and pregnancy is tasking and you would likely not find it easy. Depending on the desired job, many employers will be skeptical of employing you as you'd soon be due for maternity leave which comes with entitlements they're usually unenthusiast about taking into effect for new recruits.

valmunich:

This your shorthand makes it rather hard to grasp your point





. . . .just saying. . . .

I found out about his cheating myself but he didn't stop after I confronted him, saying she's just a lust. He stopped recently maybe because I was determined to leave him, or because fasting has started I don't no. Til after fasting bfr I no his stand. But he begged me seriously after d last incident, something he never did.

Keep your baby... You can start any form of birth control thereafter. ..


As for the cheating part, hmmmm

He cheated, you found out and he still didn't stop. Now u want to abort to stay sexy for him. I don't support abortion. Pls have ur baby first before getting a job. I don't even know what to tell u......this ur husband sef.