I don't know how to start o

But I felt to advice or help my fellow human being escape calamity.

As a married women make sure you have things to make like easy more especially WASHING MACHINE.

Problems househelp brings into a home is much than you can imagine.

When you stay without househelp you will be happier though is not easy but is possible.

I know you want your house to be well organized as some houses you see in nollywood movies.

Nobody will flog you if your house is not being swept 3 times daily.

As a woman learn to be hard working and stop doing madam in your house. You cant stand up to bring a cup that is beside you.

My dear wake up!

Even if is to wake up around 2 midnight to finish your house chores do it and still go back to bed, hardwork do not kill.

Learn to manage your home not the househelp.

I know a lady banker a househelp she brought kill her two sons(true life experience)

I sacrificed some years for my kids though is not easy but you will be happy at last.

I tired o

Kisses

Op this info you sharing is good o but why do you wanna shut us intending out well I got the info and it's nice. 10ks no kisses 4 u o

Op, how you wan make we combine work with house chores na? At least a nanny isn't bad....

i don't want my wife to start complaining of backaches or headaches in the bedroom. i will be hiring 2 housemaids to make life easier for wifey.

the experience of your friend that lost 2 sons to a housemaid is an anomaly, it's not a norm. wives are not donkeys, they need help sometimes.

coogar:
i don't want my wife to start complaining of backaches or headaches in the bedroom. i will be hiring 2 housemaids to make life easier for wifey.

the experience of your friend that lost 2 sons to a housemaid is an anomaly, it's not a norm. wives are not donkeys, they need help sometimes.

what about helping her out yourself?
And the use of machines?
Housemaids are

coogaluta:



what about helping her out yourself?
And the use of machines?
Housemaids are

i won't be caught dead in the kitchen, never mind getting caught alive. what i ain't good at, i hire experts to do for me. i cannot stress abeg.

coogar:


i won't be caught dead in the kitchen, never mind getting caught alive. what i ain't good at, i hire experts to do for me. i cannot stress abeg.

smh....
Sis. Mary can teach you
She be chopping onions while you're chopping pepper

coogaluta:


smh....
Sis. Mary can teach you
She be chopping onions while you're chopping pepper

i have passed the stage where i can be taught how to chop pepper. may be in my next life.....let the maids do my quota of the chores.

MarvellousGod:
Op, how you wan make we combine work with house chores na? At least a nanny isn't bad....

Like I said make use of machines the LG products are not too expensive. If you are working mom you can make use of good daycares around you.

coogar:
i don't want my wife to start complaining of backaches or headaches in the bedroom. i will be hiring 2 housemaids to make life easier for wifey.

the experience of your friend that lost 2 sons to a housemaid is an anomaly, it's not a norm. wives are not donkeys, they need help sometimes.

I know wives are not donkeys but make use of machines and dry cleaners for the expensive wears washing machine cant wash.

Doing house chores shouldn't be seen as a stress but an exercise.

Teach your children how to do things at home like sweeping, washing plates, cleaning shoes etc at the early stage like 3 years upwards.

Kisses

I dont see any sense in this post, imagine waking up by 2am to finish d house chores and then going back to sleep....... Like seriously, it got me thinking.

What a load of crap.... Shrugs... Nairaland is full of crap these days....

OP has given an advice that money cannot buy.

Instead of house help, you can get nanny who comes around and goes back daily. This is preferred to using house help.

There are advantages but the disadvantages seem to outweigh the advantages.

teddybear007:
I dont see any sense in this post, imagine waking up by 2am to finish d house chores and then going back to sleep....... Like seriously, it got me thinking.

You wont see the advantages until:

You ask the UBA staff whose kids were kidnapped by the house help she employed.

You see husbands being snatched by house helps.

Children maltreated and some killed by house help.

etc

coogaluta:

what about helping her out yourself?
And the use of machines?
Housemaids are

I honestly don't care if my man helps out with chores or not, as long as i don't stress out trying to do them myself.

I've come to understand that life marriage is what one makes of it. See it as suffer head and that becomes your portion.

Phema:


I honestly don't care if my man helps out with chores or not, as long as i don't stress out trying to do them myself.

I've come to understand that life marriage is what one makes of it. See it as suffer head and that becomes your portion.

True though
Life is too short

teddybear007:
I dont see any sense in this post, imagine waking up by 2am to finish d house chores and then going back to sleep....... Like seriously, it got me thinking.

My dear I know you will not see any sense in this my post. You are in your first pregnancy as you said in the other topic.
I have four children and I know what am saying 100%. Is only people married with children will understand my post better.
Enjoy now you are still Pregnant because soon you will be sleeping for few hours at night.

Well enjoy your marriage dear, sorry for not making any sense to you.

soopamom:
What a load of crap.... Shrugs... Nairaland is full of crap these days....

@ soopamom, please are you married and how many children do you have.
No offense