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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 6:08pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:Thanks once again |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by damesilver(m): 6:16pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
It all depends on your values, aspirations and what you hold dear. A lot of young men, and woman especially, live under the sinister delusion that marriage is the highest and their main vocation on earth. When it is said that 'marriages are made in heaven'', it is true. But most marriages of today seem to negate the truthfulness of that saying by the apparent effects of decay they visibly bear. The marriages themselves are to be pilloried, not the saying. Seldom is ideal marriage seen. A union entered into without much reflection depends on luck for its happiness as the chance of turning up a double six in a throw of dice. A human being on earth can either carry a negative pole (female) or positive pole (male). Like a magnet of unlike polarity, It is an inherent quality of a part-specie to desire and strive for a union for it to become a whole specie which can really be of full value. (Hence, the reason people feel subconsciously they need to just get marry without their knowing why). The blending of the complementary qualities in both bring about perfection, only if they are striving towards noble things. It doesn't matter whether you are esteemed by your neighbour. Each individual bears full responsibility for whatever he thinks and does. The desire to procreate is the exclusive preserve of the parties involved as it is not a necessary condition for a harmonious relationship. A woman carries a delicate and higher inner sensing than the man, which is also evident in their physical bodies. The man is to face outward battle while the woman supply the strength needed by her constant connection with the power centre from above. They need not enter into marriage here on earth, nor need they be acquainted in any way; only that their striving must be towards the Light. Yes, you can live a fulfilling life whether single or married but if you do earnestly desire to contract marriage anyway, do not be superficial. A great curse rests on whoever desecrate the sacredness of the high institution. Turn to your inner voice for answers and your path will become clear with soft carpets full of roses. Note: I recommend that you read some articles on 'schizoid personality.' Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by naijainfogalery: 6:32pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
I hope i was able to convince u lol, not to only marry but believe in LOve MsBliss: |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 6:44pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
iykedare:Hmm.... I cnt offer anything to a man; so tell me,what does men want from a woman ? |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 6:55pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:I know your bubble is precious to you and am really sorry to burst it .I am still not convinced sorry . |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 6:59pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
damesilver:I love the part you said that people feel self concioused to get married without knowing why. they automatically feel its just normal to get married because everybody does that. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:14pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
damesilver:schizoid personality ?? No honey am definitely not a loner.It haven't gotten to that stage o.If I start talking eh nah you sef go tire.I also have a great relationship with people around me.So just rule that out. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
MsBliss: Same here too. I feel marriage is overhyped, i enjoy being single. Who knows? Maybe someday, i might have a change of mind. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by naijainfogalery: 8:36pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Well im not actually here to force you but i just want you to see the light Remember when you were young some certain things matters, while you were in secondary school things that made you cry are the things that you feel actually made school sweet, back in uni things that gave you headache are the things if you look back you just laugh out loud, fast forward 30 years from now the truith will evolve as reality, MsBliss: |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by snakebeat: 9:06pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:On point, except the emboldened. Not in all cases, some children can be the opposite of joy. Then u'll always wish u never had one.... |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by naijainfogalery: 9:48pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
true but we always hope for the best snakebeat: |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 11:30pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:Thanks Durlin for your efforts. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 11:32pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Chi59:so so over hyped. I also hope to have a change of mind someday with good reasons to back it up and at least have something to say to my children . 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by naijainfogalery: 11:36pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
wish i could tell u somethings but def not here as time goes on you will be fine trust me MsBliss: |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 11:42pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:What things ? |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by rudebouy: 12:27am On Jul 19, 2015 |
MsBliss: Na wa oh! U no want marry and u no want wire. Abi konji no day hold you? U get low sex drive or sexual dysfunction? |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:08am On Jul 19, 2015 |
rudebouy:Hahaha its all wired to my thoughts: what I think about. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by naijainfogalery: 7:15am On Jul 19, 2015 |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by troy20(m): 8:10am On Jul 19, 2015 |
MsBliss:u just de make noise.i will be very happy if you eventually remain single till eternity.atleast there are too many fertile women with the imploding population.but who am i kidding, you are just waiting to stretch out a finger for a ring to the next man who as much as says 'Hi' to you.i can bet my life you are already doing six to six to find a husband.see dis one.mtcheew |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by rudebouy: 10:18am On Jul 19, 2015 |
MsBliss: Well, der are four options here involved and you must pick one of dem: 1. Stay single for life and suffer naija stigma from family, friends and soceity at large. 2. Marry to please naija and endure all the bullshit dat comes with it. 3. Marry to please naija and have an open marriage. 4. Marry becos u want to and make it work for you. It's okay to have weird tots. Everybody does once in a while. The question is do u wanna have a weird life also? Der is nothing wrong in having a weird life either. Howeva, if you can come for some private lectures, I will guide you into the world of weirdness8-). Comprehenday? |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by limamintruth: 11:03am On Jul 19, 2015 |
MsBliss: Marry & enjoy greater earthly bliss just like your moniker mentions |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 3:04pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
rudebouy:Hmmm What's your definition of weird ? 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 3:06pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
troy20:You wish !!!! I am 19 and marriage is not in my dictionary.even if it will be added,it will be in 4..5 years time. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 3:06pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
limamintruth:Does marriage guarantee bliss? |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 3:07pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:Ok |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by rudebouy: 3:10pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
MsBliss: Weird is thinking far away from the box, questioning the box, replacing the box with a ball, refusing to follow the crowd for no reason, etc. Its abt being you in ur own unique way. People call it weird, I call it unique. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by Jorussia(m): 3:44pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
MsBliss:the only reason I will take you serious, is if you are still a Virgin. If you are already having sexual intercourse and then coming here to say you are not interested in marriage, you must be a very BIG JOKER. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 4:50pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Jorussia:OK |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by UnaDonStart(m): 7:05pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
rudebuoy,MsBliss mentioned wired thoughts and you all of a sudden started mentioning weird.they are two different thing,go back to her first response to your post and do the needful,no insult intended. Jorrusia,your comment does not pass across at all, you mean anybody that have had sex must marry,whether male of female.let's assume MsBliss has had sex several times as a female,going by your statement she must definetely get married,Dat one na Big lie,I would advise you come again. To you MsBliss,can you really hold on to this idea of not getting married for long,that is the main ish,its not by thinking about it yesterday and creating a thread today.Are you really convinced about not getting married. N:B I like your wired thought aspect,it is very interesting it works for me too,but it is used only by the strong in mind. My 2 Pence,HOLLA. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by ogawisdom(m): 7:14pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
[quote author=MsBliss post=35977785]Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage . I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life. If ur mother had tot lik this u won't b here today. U need to ve ur own children n ve ur own family |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:20pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
[quote author=ogawisdom post=36053700][/quote]Who knows ,she may have had such thoughts but didn't have any option than to succumb to the pressures around her. |
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:20pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
UnaDonStart:Thanks for the correction. As you can see,I am still in a confused state. |
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