We are all social people. We are just social in different ways. Don’t be ashamed of the way you interact with people. Learn from your strengths and develop them. Never give up on communicating with people as it is one of the greatest joys in life.
Being social and outgoing isn’t difficult. It’s actually quite liberating. Everyone else is saying you can’t do it, but I disagree: you can do it. And that’s the attitude you have to have, not just with this, but with everything in life.
A big part of this is working on your first impression. Make sure you are dressed and groomed well. Make sure your body language is on point – no slouching, make good eye contact, acknowledge people’s presence.

How do i become more Social

1. Make eye contact

Make direct eye contact with anyone. People on the metro. On the sidewalk. In the elevator. Just look in their eyes, try to figure out what they’re thinking about, how they feel. Only few people still do that nowadays, yet it’s creating a connection with the person you are looking at.
Afterwards..

2. Smile

Like it or not, people are attracted to happiness. And by attracted I don’t mean in a sexual or loving way – it’s just making the impression that you’re fun to be around. This works especially well with any female – some men will just think you’re weird. But don’t let that stop you – the overall results will blow your mind!

3. Make small talk

Ask people about their weekends, their pets, their apartments, their activities, what their plans for the week are, how they came to end up where they are, what they love about their jobs/environment/hobbies. Try and always ask questions that are implicating an open answer such as “Why did you choose to live in lag.?” or “How did you end up studying physics?”. This way, people will open up to you and in turn will be interested in you. Try to avoid questions to which the answer is a mere fact or a “yes/no” such as “Do you like it here?” or “Where do you live?”. These don’t lead anywhere.


Read more: http://www.adedokun.com/2015/07/become-more-social/#ixzz3gEQDD4ZG

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