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What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 9:39am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Why do some kids{even adults}call their mothers “aunty” Nland mothers what are the causes? |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by shalomm: 9:39am On Jul 21, 2015 |
i called my mother aunty...... |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 9:44am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Why? shalomm: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by shalomm: 9:46am On Jul 21, 2015 |
chomytex: My mum's Niece's Nephew and cousin called her that...so when i was given birth to, i end up calling her that. not just me, my younger bro also... but now that we are adult, we find it hard to call her mum or mummy..... BUT WE LOVE HER TO DEATH |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Nobody: 9:47am On Jul 21, 2015 |
I am an exception! |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:47am On Jul 21, 2015 |
chomytex: Well....I noticed it mainly occurs with single mothers...and it's for obvious reasons. Like my ex, her kid always called her aunty, but she knew she was her mother.... I dunno about people in family homes tho. |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 9:51am On Jul 21, 2015 |
So that people won't knw that she already had a child or wat? JeffreyJamez: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 9:53am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Hmmm ok I guess that's the reason shalomm: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by shalomm: 9:55am On Jul 21, 2015 |
chomytex: yeah... she is not complaining though..... cause the love we have for her overshadow all. |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:56am On Jul 21, 2015 |
chomytex: I think so |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 9:59am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Hmmmm..ok JeffreyJamez: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Utchgirl(f): 9:59am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Atimes, it's nt dia fault bt d mother's. In my vicinity i hv seen wia a small boy is calling her biological parents broda and aunty instead of dad and mum respectively. The reason is simply because d whole children in dt compound use 2 call dem broda and anuty. So d little boy shaperly followed dia mouth . U knw kids learn very easily 4rm dia fellow. All tins being equal, it's d mum's duty 2 be correctinng d little boy whneva he calls dem by dt name. Bt guess wht ? D woman hardly does dt, saying dt he will change 2 calling dem by dad and mum whn grows up. Unfornately, d boy grow up still calling dem by broda and aunty. Now they r Five in number (4 boys and a girl) All of dem follow d line of dia elder broda in calling dia parents broda and aunty. They r all grown now. D first 3 are all in higher institutions . So d mum is 2 be blamed here. She fail in her duty.This is a case of sparing d rod and spoiling d child. Evn d Bible made us 2 knw dt we shld train a child in a way he shld grow, so dt whn he is old,he wil nt depart 4rm it. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 10:10am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Nawao brother and aunty?..intresting. Utchgirl: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Utchgirl(f): 10:19am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by thorpido(m): 10:23am On Jul 21, 2015 |
It happens a lot where the mother is a single mother like jeffreyjamez said.In such families,the grandmother is often the one that the child looks up to more as a mother and the mother is often okay with the status quo. In other families,it's because they hear other relatives calling them that.The parents ought to correct that as they grow up however. |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 10:31am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Nt proper at all! Utchgirl: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Nobody: 10:37am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Victoriabee yuh obsession wit lolaredvelvet knowz no boundz therefore d feelin iz mutual hoooe yuh will never forget me yuh will never get ova lolaredvelvet ashaaaaaawo lyk yuh |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Nobody: 10:40am On Jul 21, 2015 |
all Victoriabee does is liking her own commentz wit various alternate monikerz teenage bully yuh got exposed on d derailerZ thread lyk d baby ashaaawo yuh are! |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by dangotesmummy: 10:59am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Op its usually the grandma that starts it .She tells the child that's your aunty and I'm your mom. So the child grows up with the lies and when he's eventually told his grandma is his grandma and his supposed aunty is his mother it is always almost impossible for him to stop calling his mom aunty. His psyche has already been used to that |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Feranchek(m): 11:30am On Jul 21, 2015 |
chomytex: Hmmm.... quite interesting. My cousin used to call her mum aunt back then, buh she grew up and changed!! So, I can't really blame the mum to larger extent. Buh still, they're to be blamed. |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 11:37am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Y calling her aunt in the first place? Feranchek: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Feranchek(m): 10:10pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
chomytex: Na watin we dey call her na... so she copy am. Lol |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 1:38pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Nobody ogini? Victoriabee yuh obsession wit |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Uchwilliam(m): 7:10am On Jul 30, 2015 |
We call my mum sister |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by OAMMB(f): 8:08am On Jul 30, 2015 |
You used the word kids. Kids follow the trends they meet on ground i believe when they grow older they will know the difference. |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 1:00am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Sister kwa? Odiegwu o...guess ur dad will be“brother”,lol Uchwilliam: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 1:01am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Nt only kids bt adults inclusive. OAMMB: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Uchwilliam(m): 7:23am On Aug 01, 2015 |
chomytex:Na we call him daddy cos he cautioned us mum didnt i guess |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by chomytex(f): 7:30am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Ur dad did the right thing...guess ur mum was just indifferent about the whole tin. Uchwilliam: |
Re: What's Your Take On This? by Uchwilliam(m): 1:05pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
chomytex:Ya |
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