Hello everyone, please I need your urgent advice on this trivial issue
because I don't want it to break my home. I'm a married woman with three kids. My husband is a Civil Engineer while I work in a bank. I was working as a cashier before my transfer to the marketing department of the bank. When I told my husband about it he kicked against it vehemently and said if I can't be posted to other departments, I should resign from the job. I pleaded with him and assured him that I will be loyal to him and I will never cheat on him. Of course am not a baby and I know why he is never in support of this. But all my pleas fell on deaf ears. Take it or leave it, my salary plays its part in family finance, we are not that financially bouyant and besides I hate being idle. To get another job is not an easy task. The issue of my job is already turning my home into a battle ground. Please help!!


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Mrs.....beg ur husband ooooo...plz him wella ooo...if possible...gve him BJ(ma idea sha)....jobs are very very hard dese days oooo....xcept you have connections....nd if he allows you nd you cheat on him...may you be sacked> IJN









#sips weed nd guava juice#

it isnt advisable for a family with 3 kids at that to have just one source of income,, i think u should sit and speak with him,, i mean jobs like u said are really hard to get,, who wants to be a housewife?? And i think ur husband should be more trusting,, he shouldnt think, u'll cheat on him..... What if,, God forbid, he loses his job or something, then the both parents would be jobless,, the cons of resigning are far more than the pros,, he should understand

Pls, who owns nairaland?

Sometimes love just seems like a battlefield. You better get your armour. I feel for you because nowadays jobs are very scarce. I think you should come up with a strategy of how you'll get customers and present it to him but if he insist on having his way you should see his mentor together (someone he respects a lot, not his family member)