So many homes and families suffer and a lot of them fail in the longevity department because signs of controlling are not taken care of or just are not noticed. Why is that? This article will clear up some areas of our psyche means that might help explain the reasons that this happens.

These are the topics i will be sharing:

1. Understanding
2. Controlling behavior
3. Communication

Catch up with the full details in the next post,

In continuation of how to revive broken home:

In todays post, we talk about Understanding.

Understanding in a family setting could be termed a mutual agreement. No matter what the longer you've been in together as a family, the harder it is to understand much less see what is happening and can be very tough to overcome. Being aware of your surroundings is the first form of self defense and you definitely need to be aware of these signs.

Both partners involved should be thoroughly familiar with each other.

In the next post, we continue with controlling behavior, and your comment is highly appreciated.

Hi folks, being quite some time.

We are still in progress to our discussion on how to revive broken homes. We have shade some light on Understanding, and today we talk on controlling behavior.

Controlling behavior is one of the characteristics that a family may have that is doomed from the beginning. Why do people get into these situations and stay in them for any length of time? For starters if a person doesn't hold themselves very high in the self esteem department and another person pays attention to them then temporarily this person may need him or her. This type of behavior can escalate into many different forms of control both mental and physical.

No matter how you perceive it, controlling behavior is a sign of a controlling family that you need to be aware of and remedy it as soon as possible.

Resist to be controlled. This type of behavior is good because the person being controlled actually is psychologically fighting back resisting the controlling aspect of the situation. But they don't know how because there is no communication between the two people involved.

See u @ d top!!!

In the last topics, we discuss about Communication.

When it comes to avoiding and resolving conflict, how effectively families communicate (both at times of peace and pressure) ultimately makes the difference in the strength and longevity of our families.

No one likes to be controlled for any reason and if a person feels that they are trapped within a family they may rebel in the form of withdrawing from activities, being lackadaisical, forgetting events and the like. That is the defense mechanism kicking in to combat the controlling issues from the partner.

If the family seems to be this way then you can bet that nothing positive will happen until communication is established and by talking with each other and coming out with it.

Building effective communication skills in our families starts with discovering the different temperaments that are involved. Your family may include a member who dislikes small talk and another who wants to talk everything out to its end. You may have a family member who is always in motion, moving from one unfinished task to another, while another needs to finish one task before moving on to the next on the list. Unless members with these opposite temperaments understand and respect each other, coming to solution may be just as much of a conflict as the issue itself.
The key lies in listening to each person from his or her own point-of-view. Each person brings to the table both a position on the issue at hand and a personal perception of the communication process. Understanding that these are sometimes mutually exclusive will help you break them into two distinct pieces in order to deal with them effectively.
Before tackling the issues, it may be helpful to do a reality check on your own point-of-view (as well as the points-of-view of other family members).

In times of conflict, out of esteem behaviors are common. Recognizing this will help identify the "people issues" involved in the larger problem at hand.

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Hello fellow landers!!!

Having identified some things on how to revive a broken home, we now need to know where to start as it will help us understand the situation if our home is already on the fence of breaking up. No matter how long we have being in the family and how strong, we still need to be aware that a happy family is the best thing that can happen to anyone.

We need to be good role models for our children, which contributes to nation building.

Your comments will go a long way to helping others in need and it is welcomed.

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