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10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by sommyblaze(m): 5:23am On Sep 15, 2015 |
10 MYTHS ABOUT INTROVERTS Myth #1 : Introverts don’t like to talk. This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days. Myth #2 : Introverts are shy. Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite. Myth #3 : Introverts are rude. Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting. Myth #4 : Introverts don’t like people. On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in. Myth #5 : Introverts don’t like to go out in public. Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts. Myth #6 : Introverts always want to be alone. Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time. Myth #7 : Introverts are weird. Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy. Myth #8 : Introverts are aloof nerds. Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them. Myth #9 : Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun. Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up. Myth #10 : Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts. A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ. Are you an introvert/extrovert? Which of the above don't you agree. Source: http://www.carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts - Mods pls I didn't know the appropriate section, you could help right? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Eeser: 5:27am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Eyyen...
Introvert, over to you 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by AlPeter: 5:32am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Guy, have we met before? Who told you about me? These are spot on. 7 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by itsmine: 5:38am On Sep 15, 2015 |
perfect write-up op. 95% or more of NLers shd be introv. it's just not possible to be extrov & take up permanent residence in NL. 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by sommyblaze(m): 6:36am On Sep 15, 2015 |
AlPeter: Ahah! We just met. *smiles* 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Masterclass32: 6:53am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Op made a lot of sense. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by CrazyPanther(f): 7:19am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Never knew this, Introverts over here. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by F22RAPTOR(m): 7:22am On Sep 15, 2015 |
ahhhh...Finally, God bless you OP. Some really shallow minded people out there think Innies should be 'fixed', 'put in order', 'repaired', 'rehabilitated', and to some religious people; they should 'repent'. Are they 'broken' or 'damaged' that they require fixing? Are they saying that God in his infinite state of genius made an error in their design? All I see are a lot of educated illiterates who wouldnt learn. But you never get to hear them say that extroverts need psychiatric evaluation because they jump around aimlessly and shout everytime acting like they are crazy. #ProudlyIntroverted #supergenius #multitalented #analytical #powerOfQuiet #LoyaltyToOne 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Adolak(m): 8:02am On Sep 15, 2015 |
True. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by AlPeter: 8:05am On Sep 15, 2015 |
F22RAPTOR: feel you wella, it's very annoying at times when folks just want me to conform to their own thoughts and desire as if I care. I love to think things through before making decisions and not just follow the crowd, because whatever the result i want to bear the consequences without regrets so I find it annoying when am be told to just do it like everyone else, as if my name is 'everyone else'. I am me and I ain't changing I love to think analyse and stand by my words, I respect others decisions at all times, I Love country music because it calls my raging mind, you might not see but in emergencies am as ruffled as you but shouting and screaming won't solve anything so I maintain my cool and calmness and act when I have to that doesn't mean am 'slow'. Am fun am me am smart and am Proud #teamIntrovert 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Pinkiedearie(f): 8:06am On Sep 15, 2015 |
#proudly an introvert Mostimes i laugh at some talkative eXtroverts when they display themselves around me 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by potolistic(m): 8:12am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Only ten meats?.. U for add like 2 fish mk e sweet na |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by AlPeter: 8:14am On Sep 15, 2015 |
sommyblaze: lol... Yea. You are right with what you wrote what most don't understand is that we introverts Love and Value life so much that we don't want to waste it doing silly unproductive stuffs just for doing sake, they don't realize that before we say a word we think it through first, and hardly say or do things with out careful thought maybe that's why we are 'weird'. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by F22RAPTOR(m): 8:17am On Sep 15, 2015 |
AlPeter:Super!, well said. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by F22RAPTOR(m): 8:18am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Pinkiedearie:you are not alone my dear. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by raydatluvs(m): 8:28am On Sep 15, 2015 |
For me, I relate with the post, well said. That no6 got me in the moment cos ever since my relationship ended, bin feeling so lonely and empty not dat am idle, am a super busy guy and I have few female frnds not dat am a loner just dat connection op mentioned is not there. Nobody tries to change me here, we are wat we are. All is well. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Cooljoe1(m): 8:34am On Sep 15, 2015 |
11. The only Introvert i know is the queen of FTC on Nairaland |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by gulfer: 9:02am On Sep 15, 2015 |
11.introverts book space for FTC on NL |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Chestar5(f): 9:22am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Tanks @op, people take me weird and say i dont have friends or i dont talk too much, actually i only talk when i know its right... INTROVETS ROCK 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by sommyblaze(m): 9:44am On Sep 15, 2015 |
raydatluvs:All is well indeed. *smiles* |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by okotv(m): 9:45am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Fantastic writ. As long as some folks understand me. No problems. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Roum(m): 9:55am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Eeser:if introvert catch u ehhh 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Ewizard(m): 10:01am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Ctrl+c, Ctrl+ v |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Marvyx(m): 10:06am On Sep 15, 2015 |
This one wia everybody don dy claim introvert,,i tire una o,, who b d extrovert den? 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by huxxain(m): 10:23am On Sep 15, 2015 |
You are right @OP!!! I am an introvert & I love my life. You can either take me the way I am or LET ME BE!!!. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Oahray: 10:24am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Lol. Suddenly everyone on NL is introverted. E good o 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Nobody: 10:50am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Rip to a nairalander 'introvert's mentions. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Nobody: 11:03am On Sep 15, 2015 |
almost all my brothers and sisters are holding grudge against me cos of dis issue- they said i dnt call them often & i'll simply say "i call only wen i need to" ; they actually think its pride, wetin we go dey discus self? 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Oahray: 11:14am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Ewizard:and he wants to hit fp with it |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Richiy(f): 11:17am On Sep 15, 2015 |
I love Introverts. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by LaurelP(m): 11:34am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Richiy: U must be an extrovert. Opposites usually attract in real life. Am more of an introvert but almost all my friends are extroverts, though I dislike the overly noisy ones. I like people who can shut their mouth atimes. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Myths About Introverts You Never Knew by Godwin10(m): 11:38am On Sep 15, 2015 |
Why will you just come here and be telling everyone about me ? ... 1 Like 1 Share |
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