Trauma is defined by the way a
person reacts to events. So a
trauma to one person may not be a
trauma to another. And some
people can cope with the trauma
and move forward quickly. Others,
though, may not be able to cope.
It is important to remember that
some children might see an event
as traumatic even when the adults
around them do not. For example,
after a house fire, adults are busy
working with the insurance
company and rebuilding. Children
only know that their toys and room
– the things that made them feel
safe – were destroyed.
Any time a child does not feel safe
and protected, the event could be
seen as a trauma. Because trauma is
defined by the person who
experiences it, no single list can
include all the causes of trauma for
children. The following list, though,
will explain some of the more
common traumas children face.
Surgery or Serious Illness – The
child is in the hospital for a serious
illness or surgery.

1-Separation from Loved Ones – A
child might be separated from
loved ones due to military
deployment, a divorce, a prison
sentence or even removal of a child
from home due to an investigation
of abuse or neglect.

2-Loss/Abandonment – The child
loses a biological parent through
divorce, abandonment, death or
other reason.
Isolation within the Family – No
one in the family appears to love
the child or consider the child to be
important or special. The family
does not look out for each other,
feel close or support each other

3-Domestic Violence – Domestic
violence is a behavior used by one
person in a relationship to gain
power over or control the other.
Abuse includes physical, sexual,
emotional, economic or
psychological actions or threats.
This includes any behaviors that
frighten, intimidate, terrorize,
manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame,
injure or wound someone.

AM SORRY TO SAY THIS IT HAPPEN TO 99% of children with out parent.