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Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by begwong: 2:55pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Lilimax:You are not a faithful housewife ma. If he reduces the house keep allowance, you should know or ask where the other difference goes to 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
If truly your wife is hiding her salary from you then visit TB Joshua or relegate her to girlfriend zone. she love money pass you...... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Lilimax(f): 2:57pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Lilimax(f): 2:57pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
NICOGRAVITY:Money can't and will never ruin my marriage. As a confirm Igbotic lady, I like money 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Lilimax: your love for money will destroy your marriage if you don't take time..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by hrhobi1(m): 2:58pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
She might feel letting you know might stop you from providing for the house as usual. |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Lilimax(f): 2:59pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
jeffucee10:For where, money answereth all things the reason Igbos like money |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by zubby29(m): 2:59pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
y u no get sense? odinese: |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by ifeomaekol(f): 3:01pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
It maybe dt her salary is bigger than urs, and if ur d egostic type she might nt wnt to tell u. Again, it culd be dt she doesn't wnt to share some major responsibilities cos wt wat she earns, u might look up to her to shoulder some. Or jux maybe she isn't comfortable yet in telling u, so I suggest u let it go for nw, n allow her open up to u wen d time is right for her. Besides d way ur goin abt it, might be wats scaring her frm nt tellin u. Let it go for nw or evn forever, I believe u cn take care of ur family with or without her help. |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
satowind: Where does she work? |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by fateemah06: 3:01pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
I Don't hide my salary from my bf....so I don't know why.....maybe she sees you might want to become a beggar if she tells you |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by HermajestyQ(f): 3:03pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Am not surprised. My parents ve been married 4 over 25yrs, every1 but my dad knows how much she earns. |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Lilimax: Then marry your money now !!!! why play hide and seek with the poor man?? Money answereth all things my foot... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Lilimax(f): 3:04pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
jeffucee10: |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Ephemmm: 3:04pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
satowind: You see! marriage is over-hyped, honestly. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by NICOGRAVITY: 3:05pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Lilimax:My beloved sister, It's very important that you inform your husband of any raise you get in your salary and job, it will help him to appreciate you, celebrate you and value you the more. Marriage is far deeper than the surface most people scratch. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by niyi123: 3:06pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Because some of them are selfish 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
ifeomaekol: bros... the so called wife is keeping secrets from the husband and that is not healthy for any marriage. But come to think of it who is a wife and what is her role in the life of a man if not to help the man. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Karleb(m): 3:09pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
A woman you are legally married to is hiding her salary from you?! Am I the only one that finds this insulting? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Lilimax(f): 3:10pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
NICOGRAVITY:My salary is the least thing my hubby is thinking of Afterall, the money will still be spent in my home; so no issue ! |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Lilimax(f): 3:12pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
begwong: How does that bring unfaithfulness to the home ? Lecture me please |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by alaskido(m): 3:15pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
I thought I was the only one in this mess. I did not know my wifes salary for the 8 years she worked but she know mine until we divorced. The reason is that if you know her salary she feels you may not give her enough money anymore. |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by donhils: 3:17pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
Many reasons. Your friends might be seeing you as a big boy/girl until they see how much you're earning. Others would turn you to their Jehovah Jireh if they knew how much you earned. Some men could become irresponsible if they found out their wives are equal to the task & vice versa. Plus other echetram echetram reasons. However, spouses are NOT allowed to hide their salaries, it's wrong. |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
She must be one of those people with the mindset that Your money is OUR MONEY and my money is MINE alone. OR, you're stingy :- so she thinks, knowing her worth would make you reduce her "Federal allocation" Whichever case, it's a very bad one on both sides. Financial n*kedness is very important in marriage. I wonder why couples, especially women do this rubbish_ then cry foul when the man refuses to make them next of kin. Nawa o 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
satowind: Wife hiding salary? Thats a big one o. |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by estherdim: 3:24pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Btruth: 3:28pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
If I were you, honestly, I won't bother at all, in as much I can run my home in a manly manner. I will even be giving her pocket money in respect of her salaries. Women, they've been secretive since the beginning of creation. Did you ever read in the bible that Eve confess to Adam that a boyfriend (serpent) show her the apple that she gave him to eat? My man, abeg,leave story. It is well. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
financial wickedness |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by iluvweed(m): 3:39pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
alaskido: So definitely, this people will divorce too..... |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by bettyLad(f): 3:40pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
She is scared u might start sharing home responsiblites with her.it's your duty to cater for the house .it's her duty to assist .she has her reasons y she isn't telling u how much she earn 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Keep Their Salaries Secret? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Nov 10, 2015 |
it is not your business. 1 Like |
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