hi folks. i have a very good and faithfull wife, we have a beautifull daughter, but it kills me that i cannot stop cheating on my wife, pls advice, the ladies around are tempting, i need to love only one woman.

I'll say.

tpiah:

I'll say.

Psst, don't say i told you, I have a reputation to protect, I ain't a busybody as such

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-272541.0.html#msg3869822

Busy_body:

Psst, don't say i told you, I have a reputation to protect, I ain't a busybody as such

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-272541.0.html#msg3869822

the idiot is trying to cover up his busted reputation, that's all.

He had a severe case of foot and mouth. ie his foot was stuck 8 feet into his mouth.

He's eating crow and trying to pretend it's cool.

tpiah:



the idiot is trying to cover up his busted reputation, that's all.

He had a severe case of foot and mouth. ie his foot was stuck 8 feet into his mouth.

He's eating crow and trying to pretend it's cool.

Buahahahahha Soffry soffry na, you know he has a fragile ego

Try concentrating on ur wife in thots and action.

Busy_body:

Buahahahahha Soffry soffry na, you know he has a fragile ego

more like a useless pr*****

Tell ur wife ur problem and go see a marriage counsellor.
Watch the movie "Journals of a sex maniac"

there are many factors that has to be considered before anyone should insult you.
we should first try to understand what kind of marriage you are in, how did you get to the point where you are? and what do you need/seek that your partner doesnt provide you?
i think you fit perfectly into what i call "the 9ja syndrome". you are married to a woman, have a beautiful family and to everyone else, you have the perfect life but in fact this is a sham. if you truly loved, respect and was honest with your spouse, then you would be talking to her about your sexual/cheating problems instead of NL. men who cheat lack something in their lives that the mistresses, ashawos or lovers brings. it may be sexual freedom, adventure, boredom, the list is endless.
last but not least, marriage should be between 2 people that love, cherish and respect one another and that love needs to be "watered" like a flower. if you got married just to please someone else then this marriage is a sham and therefore you wouldnt really care if that "flower" is watered or not. before going out searching to fulfill your needs, you should have tried to understand what were your spouses needs too.
bare in mind, some men look at sex with their women as "for reproduction only" therefore they need to cheat to get their freak on. god forbid, you wouldnt ask YOUR WIFE to be as freaky as the girl you cheat on her with!!!!!

Use protection while cheating. Please!!

I'm not married yet so I can't really offer any good advice. I've cheated on everybody I've ever been with but then I can't say I ever loved any of them. Looking forward to reading posts from married men on this issue though, I could use some of the advice as well.

its not cheatin, its called smartness

This man is just too---

Next!!!