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Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Bawal: 3:58pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
For more than a year now,i have been looking fora job.I have attended some job interviews and none has offered me job.Its normally 'We will get back to you'....,bla bla,etc.I dont know where i m getting things wrong.I am depressed and keep on asking myself,where is the problem coming from,does it mean i dont answer interview questions well?,is it that i dont know how to attend interview or how to talk before interviewers?.Considering the ones i have been attending and no result,recently i noticed that i dont have confidence anymore anytime i am called for interview.The last two i attended last month, when i got the invitation for the interview,within my mind i wasnt even happy, i see it as usual,wont it go the way other ones have been going(dont say i am not optimistic).When i faced the panel of interviewers i noticed that i am not confidence anymore,my body was slightly shaking.Please advise on how i can build back confidence and how best to attend interview or what you think is the issue.I am getting fed up of the whole situation. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by ify84(m): 4:06pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Patience, you are the next to testify. 58 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by jostking: 4:43pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
its going to be fine. dont loose hope when you are almost at the finish line. Let me tell you my most guaranteed form of getting a job; 1. Do away with all those application for now 1. settle down and learn a useful skill in the workplace and become an expert in it. Give yourself say 4 months of dedicated practice 2. Approach the company and tell them how you can add value to them At this point you are most respected than when you compete with thousands of graduates. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by olate: 4:56pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Next time drink one bottle of Dr Iguedo goko cleanser , look straight at the interviews and tell them 'give me the Job!!' then see what will happen 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by MilesLamar(m): 5:41pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Prayers bro, prayers 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Pidggin(f): 5:44pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Make friends with confident people, you will learn from them. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by jony247(m): 5:47pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
olate:who Dr Iguedo goko cleanser Don help? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Bro don't loose hope. Take each disappointment from your previous interview as a blessing because you must have lots of lessons as to why you weren't successful. boost ur confidence level by doing a pre-interview. Brain storm for possible questions and have the best answer. To be successful in an interview requires lots of hard work. You don't just snap ur fingers and get positive response. All the best in your endeavors 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by karleone(m): 6:50pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
It is well bro. Believe me. 1 Like |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by bxcode(m): 7:01pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
You need to work on yourself bro, just like someone suggested, you need to add value to yourself to the point that your brain can't deny the fact that you know what you can offer top any organization, that will automatically kill off your low confidence. Reading won't be a bad start, read books and articles on self development then add learning of physical skills to it. You can even go for volunteer work for few months at least to change your mindset and gather working experience, it's better than staying at home doing nothing. But most importantly, seek God honestly and he will guide you the best way. Never give up, you are closer than you can imagine. 5 Likes |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Dahveydson(m): 7:09pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Dear Bawal, we can't admit to really know how you feel, but I for one know that this is not a time to give into depression. Sharing your feelings is a great step, now you have to turn it around and see the little positives in all of this, because there are, however how little. Don't stop applying for jobs, don't stop attending interviews, don't stop developing yourself. Do a reassessment of your previous interviews, learn from them, re-edit your CV and keep at it, it will pay off. It is well. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by wallmosh: 7:48pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Many are facing such. Mingle with people of confidence and be positive in your thoughts while still involve in great activities to Feature your in the Future Fixture. #RegainItNow-YourConfidence 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by ednut1(m): 8:04pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Contact jarushub . Confidence is all that matters . was once in ur shoes. E go better |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by AMZYMAYO(m): 8:08pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Sorry about the slight predicament. I want you to study and digest this thread. I wish you the best https://www.nairaland.com/2560532/interview-exposed-some-things-need-know 1 Like |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Harmvirus(f): 8:09pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Don't lose hope. Pray to God for help |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by damton(m): 8:15pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
It's not your fault. That's the situation we've found ourselves in this country. Nevertheless, don't despair. There is always light at the end of the tunnel |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by lasisi69(f): 8:15pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
End time |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by braine(m): 8:15pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
I know that feeling. |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by kingzjay(m): 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Indeed................It is well |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by kennyman2000(m): 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Hmmmm... |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by looseweight: 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Ol |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by ultrazone(m): 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Good ! One advice, stop going for interviews. Na person suppose be vulcanizer or battery charger 1 Like |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by KomradeKorsche: 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Good, OP what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I have met a number of high profile people and have submitted proposals to multinational companies. I have mostly been rejected by them all, but i always have a life lesson to learn afterwards. |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by damiloladuke: 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
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Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Smartresult(f): 8:17pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
next op |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by deeswagger: 8:17pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
That is what uemployment does to pple, u start to lose confidence, then you turn to the street for inspiration.. . And what might that be? WEED!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by steffans(m): 8:17pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
It's not like u are not good.. Some of those positions have been reserved for some special candidates.. It can only get better.. You don't need anything apart from ur confidence yin an interview.. So don't loose it.. Ur testimony is on d way.. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by englishmart(m): 8:18pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
fvck interviews. I'm a boss 2 Likes |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Agimor(m): 8:18pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.Op be resilient one more step. 2 Likes |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by johnstar(m): 8:19pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
End time op |
Re: Unsuccessful Interviews Have Started Affecting My Confidence. by Nobody: 8:19pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Bawal:SIMPLE...PRAY BEFORE GOING IN AND ALSO TAKE IT EASY |
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