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You Wonder Why No One Looks For You At Your Down Time? by bamac(m): 7:15am On Nov 19, 2015
Failure has no family but, success on the other hand is surrounded by people who wish to tap from that success.

Out of those who wish to tap from that success are those who will tap from that success to make themselves successful too.

Some also wish to tap just for to cater for "now" thinking the future will dictate the kind of knife to use to slaughter it.

The above is by the way...
You always wonder why is it that at your down time, when you are financially crippled, no one seems to want to know where you are let alone showing concerns for you?

Meanwhile when the going was still good you had them around you, that before you snapped your fingers many would have responded.

Well, it has been so from time immemorial and it will not stop till Jesus comes.

People are sensitive and will only surround you when you show you have got what it takes to make them to start loitering around you.

The day they smell you are not capable anymore due to one reason or the order they show themselves exit way.
But the question i will ask is that wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in their shoes?

You think they were with you when you had the resources, so, nothing should stop them from still staying with you when what that gave you edge over them is no more in your capability.

Do not blame anyone if they behave this way towards you, they have to move on and make ways for themselves too.

Some of them also share bigger dreams than that of yours. You should be happy they left you because if they didn't their burden might be that which will terminate your life.

Anytime they come around wouldn't you want to make them happy like you used to do? Wouldn't you want to give them the money you used to give them prior to the problem that has befallen you?

When you are not able to do this again then you have multiple problems. So, you should be very happy you are left alone.

You don't need to border about why they are not with you like they have always been, instead, phantom a way to rise back on your feet.

We are humans, we are meant to fall, but rising should be our major priority instead of thinking about the human failure of sticking with you when you are down like they used to when you were financially buoyant.

Do all you can to rise and you will see them coming back one by one, the funniest thing is that they wouldn't be better than the way they left, so, you will now fall back to ask yourself why they left you in the first place.

Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2015/11/you-wonder-why-no-one-looks-for-you-at.html

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