“Everything will be better once we move”, “I
will be happy again once I start all over again” ,
“life will be easier when I leave here ”…do
any of these sound familiar to you? If so, I’d
suggest you read on…
There was a time when these comments were
all too familiar to me. I was terribly guilty of
relying on outside factors to determine my
own level of happiness and I wondered why my
moods would alter so much from moment to
moment!
It wasn’t until I really dug deep and changed
my perspective that I was able to recognize
that my own happiness does not come from
outside factors but from the inside.
Happiness is a function of acceptance;
acceptance of yourself…your authentic self.
Once you take the time to start focusing
your energy on the present moment and stop
waiting for things to change in the future you
will recognize a powerful shift in your
perspective. Always remember that there is
a plan far greater than yours; therefore,
replace fear of the unknown with curiosity
and excitement for what lies ahead.
So, instead of waiting on the winning numbers
for the big lottery, take charge of your own
life and happiness by becoming content and at
peace with yourself…your authentic self.



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Thoughts claim our attention constantly, wasting our time and energy on unimportant and useless matters. They actually, rule our life. We have become so used to this condition that we regard it as natural.
While breathing, we do not need to pay attention to each inhalation and exhalation. We become conscious of the process of breathing, only when we have some difficulty with breathing, such as when our nose is clogged, due to a cold, or when we are in an unventilated room.
It is the same with thinking. We become conscious of the constant onslaught of our thoughts, and of our inability to calm them down, only when we need to concentrate, solve a problem or study. We are also acutely aware of them, when we have worries or fears.
Examine this familiar situation. You need to study something for your job or for an exam. You sit comfortably on the sofa with the book in your hands and start reading. After a while, you feel hungry and go to the kitchen to eat something.
You return to the book, but a few moments later you hear people talking outside. You listen to them for several moments and then bring your attention back to the book.
After a while, you feel restless and switch on the radio to listen to music. You continue reading a few moments, and then remember an incident that happened yesterday, and start thinking about it.
When you look at your watch, you are amazed to find out that one complete hour has passed, and you have hardly read anything.
This is what happens when one lacks concentration. Imagine what you could have accomplished, if you could control your attention and focus your mind!
A job that requires physical strength, such as carrying heavy loads, for example, strengthen the muscles. However, it is not the same as exercising daily in a gym. Reading and studying, exercise the mind, but to gain strong concentration, you need to practice exercises every day, just like training in a gym.


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