Is it just me or do we live in a hypocritical world?

-Girls are advised not to bleach but guys daily drool over and complement the light skinned majorly
-people are asked not to get wealthy through 'dirty' means but no one wants to associate themselves with the poor and struggling
-our African parents frown upon relationships and you wonder how they got together in the first place
-good results are celebrated and efforts or means to such results never questioned

Is it just me or do we live in a hypocritical world?
If I'm not alone here please re