1. Married man can rape his wife, even if they just finished kissing. I think we should all understand the word rape and its occurences. If a lady does not approve, or agree, and you go ahead, it is rape.
2. Relationship does not warrant rape. That they had a loving relationship where they both had plenty consentual sex does not mean rape is allowed. If she doesnt want it that night, she doesnt.

Sugabelly isnt all she says she is though. A lot of the accusations have been sugercoated and she did that to whip up sentiments. She might have been raped, but not to the degree she's claiming. The pains she is expressing is more of the pains of a jilted lover than that of a serially molested lady.