Mummy's boy, you r now a man. Tomorrow u will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more than you love me. Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some pieces of advice.
There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were screaming. Tempers were high. I was angry and he was angry.
Then I called him IDIOT! he was shocked. He looked at me asking how dare I call him that. I immediately started calling him names, idiot, fool, stupid, crazy. Guess what he did? He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.
My son, if your father had hit me and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting with me here today? Would you have been proud of him or would you be blaming me for calling him names? Never hit your wife!! No matter the provocation just walk away and things will be normal. Whenever she offends you, irritate her with silent or you can think of this story I told you, it could have been your mum!
Before I forget, after he left, i was filled with guilt. We slept on the same bed that night and I went to him the next morning, i pleaded with him, I did all I could to show him I am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favorite food, yes you know he loves vegetable soup right? After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.
There is something you must always do, my son listen very attentively, defend your wife, even if she did wrong, talk to her privately about her wrong deed than treating it publicly(never was your dirty linen outside). When she's under pressure, stand by her. If your friend hates her for no reason, it is your duty to treat her like a Queen. Your uncle, I mean uncle Patrick never liked me, but your dad was always supportive until his perception changed.
There was a day your father was going to host the owner of his company and friends. They were three of them. That day I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks for them. When the table was set and food was served. Everyone started eating, then I remembered that I did not add salt in the food. I was embarrassed . Your father tasted the food and look at me, he immediately turned to the guests, he told them that he instructed the wife his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking, because of some problem with his body. He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed. The guest understood and he asked me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt. After the guest left, he went on his knees and asked God to forgive him for lying.
Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don't know what to say or do. Stand up for her and speak for her!
Now let me talk to you about sex.
You see sex is a wonderful thing. Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and need sex more than you do.
There were days, I needed sex more than your father and there were days he needed it more than me but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need you. Don't always think of yourself.
There was a time things were hard and I needed two jobs to support your father. One night I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood, he tried to make love to me but I didn't refused him. i was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he needs me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understand me better. He stopped and start telling me stories until I fell asleep.
My son, sex is best enjoyed when the two parties are physically and mentally ready for it. she's yours always, she's not running anywhere with it. Sometimes, read your wife and understand her better.
Make it a habit to anywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her. If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife then be very careful. Use wisdom. I know you love mummy... I know you tell me all your problems. But now thing are different.
Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.
When you have problems with her, don't run to me immediately. Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it
Finally don't forget to come And visit me with your wife every month!
I know you will always have a happy home. You will always be mummy's boy.
Take Note- I am not married but this post is written from my observation of my parents as a child. I am sure this is what my mum will tell my kid bros when they finally decide to take d bull by the horn.
Why not share? Maybe you can help someone. WONDERFUL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL.
nb-i got this post from a friend on fb.

Lol. Una done see maga. Any woman wey wan show herself na lagoon her destiny go end. Sorry, I stopped reading where name-calling started.

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Lol. Una done see maga. Any woman wey wan show herself na lagoon her destiny go end. Sorry, I stopped reading where name-calling started.

I stopped reading at 'love your new mum'.

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I stopped reading at 'love your new mum'.

Lol.