I need some help, what do yaw think about this situation I am in?
Ok Im 16 years old and my parents treat me like some lil bitch, They never let me go to Highschool partys, don't let me do what I wanna do or make my own choices, and they still make me go to bed at fuckin 9:30 pm now thats some bs I think, What do yaw think?? I mean if I am old enough to drive I don't think they should institute some bullshit rules all the time, If Im old enough to go to a real prison then I should be old enough to make my own decisions,

Then you should be old enough to move out and quit whimpering like a little boy, right big boy?
Simple parentomatics - live under my roof, do as I say.

Sorry but that's how parents are. They always want the best for their kids, _{the best parent line}

You are only 16 and complaining?

what about 20 something years old in most parts of Africa?

They have rules, they are being controlled like no tomorrow.

Just bear with it, someday you'll be old enough  to be on your own.

As long as you live under their roof, you have no option but to do as they say.

true but everything they do continues to ruin my life because I get pissed at them,

I don't blame them.  Sounds like you want to ruin your life but they don't want you to.

@ poster

Wait till you go to college.

wetin dey do these pikins dem sef?

If you think you're an adult and want to be doing adult things, get your own place and start paying your own way. . .

JustGood:

wetin dey do these pikins dem sef?

If you think you're an adult and want to be doing adult things, get your own place and start paying your own way. . .

Word

JustGood:

wetin dey do these pikins dem sef?

If you think you're an adult and want to be doing adult things, get your own place and start paying your own way. . .

thanks.  if he is old enough to go to a real prison, he should be old enough to go out and get a job.

Jduck13:

I need some help, what do yaw think about this situation I am in?
Ok Im 16 years old and my parents treat me like some lil bitch, They never let me go to Highschool partys, don't let me do what I wanna do or make my own choices, and they still make me go to bed at fuckin 9:30 pm now thats some bs I think, What do yaw think?? I mean if I am old enough to drive I don't think they should institute some bullshit rules all the time, If Im old enough to go to a real prison then I should be old enough to make my own decisions,

Just wondering. . . are your parents Nigerians?

Mai Suya:

Just wondering. . . are your parents Nigerians?

If N.C. stands for New York City I might understand why his parents won't allow him out.

N.C. should mean North Carolina and it looks like he is in a small town.

Original Poster: PLEASE, WATCH UR LANGUAGE!

Poster,as long as u stay under their roof,u have to obey them Intoto.
If u want to act and feel all grown up,check into the next hotel/hostel/apartment.

if only you know what they are protecting you from

michelin89:

If N.C. stands for New York City I might understand why his parents won't allow him out.

Abeg, leave NYC alone, we are not even in the top 15 most dangerous cities or states.

@ poster, your parents are probably just worried about you, plus you are next door to S.C. and North Charleston has a very high crime rate(10th most dangerous in the country). As a teenager, parents often seem like a pain you know where. All you can do, is do well at school, maybe get a part-time job and start saving towards your own place - then you will really be grown. For now, you have to live according to their rules.

If you haven't been acting out, talking to your parents might help, maybe you can get your bed time/curfew extended, at least at weekends. It's usually give and take, most parents are willing to be reasonable, if you are living up to your end of the bargain. If they are Nigerian parents, I'm sure education is extremely important to them, so do well at school and watch your language.

You will be 18 in 2 years - then you can move out and run wild, if you want. Right now, you are still a minor and they are legally responsible for your well-being.

thank you all posters who are givin good advice such as the last poster

and for the ones like c25oh or whatever jus go on bc you are obviously just internet thugs who think you are tough bc u can run your mouth, Y be disrespectful to someone who is askin an honest question?

Be patient. . . .u have all the time in the world to be adventurous and explore. . . .

But while u are under ur parents u need to essentially abide by the rules!!

Of course you should go to bed at 9:30. Don't you have to be at school in the morning? If your parents are Nigerians then all I can say is that is normal. We all went through the same thing. Just focus on school and get good grades and obey your parents. One day you will finally understand. Your parents love you and that is how they show their love.